He said, she said

Last weekend D and I went exclusive again. It was my choice, though obviously he agrees. I am enjoying every minute of it. To celebrate that, I asked him to write his version of the story below and am posting them together for your enjoyment.
The Gypsy Kings are really the best accompanyment to the first half of this but, Katy Perry won out as the soundtrack. The sentiments are exactly why I chose to go out with just him. I posted this without having read his version first to keep it a surprise.

She said:
Over last weekend I was able to take some time away from caring for my mother, who had a knee replacement, and get in some dinner with D. He drove an hour and a half, one way, to have dinner with me. When he does things like that, I feel so cherished and loved. I just don’t come from that type of situation and the thought didn’t even occur to me to ask him to come up. “Why would he?” I think. “Because you’re worth it,” he says.


Talk about melting my heart.

So, after contacting the local chamber of commerce for a recommendation, he picked a lovely restaurant, which was much closer to me than him. Did I mention his middle name is Thoughtful? He sent me the address and directions and when he’d be there. I eagerly drove the 30 minutes it took me, excited to be able to see my babe. He texted me just before I got there that he had arrived and was having a beer in the bar. He asked if I wanted him to get me one and I said yes. I don’t typically like beer, but he knows I like pear ciders (and other fruit beers) and they had one, so he had one waiting for me when I arrived. I spotted him through the front door at the bar and smiled and indicated to the hostess I’d be heading that way. Sometimes when I see him, I feel really lucky that he’s even interested in me. It’s one of those situations where I feel special just being near him. I had the remnants of a cold sore at the time so we hadn’t been able to kiss in over a week. I got settled into my seat and leaned over and gave him a sideways peck, wishing it could be more. We smiled at each other like teenagers. He still has the ability to make my heart skip a beat when he smiles at me and I love it. I can see all over his face how much he cares for me in his eyes and his smile. We sat and chatted and caught up on our days and enjoyed our drinks and being with each other.

After awhile we decided we were both hungry and he suggested eating outside on the patio because the weather was gorgeous. I requested a little table away from the others because it was “romantical,” as I told the hostess. She laughed and said that was a new one to her. Either way, we got our semi-private table away from everyone else. Beautiful white and colored lights were strung up outside at the restaurant which emulated a small Mexican village. Neither of us had been here before and we were both really enjoying the ambiance. The food was delivered quickly and was fantastic. I had devoured a good amount of the chips and bean dip and salsa that were brought for appetizers so I was slower to move on my salmon tacos. He had some albondigas soup and spinach and cheese enchiladas, both which he said were good.

We sat and enjoyed the beautiful evening and music playing. At one point I noticed someone go into a set of outside bathrooms which were off a little hallway near our table. I visited the ladies room after dinner only to discover an “out of order” sign. I mentioned this to him when I came back to the table and he pointed out the other bathrooms inside. When I returned he asked, with a not-so-subtle raise of his eyebrows, if the “out of order” bathroom had a lock on it. My goofy grin took over and I told him it did indeed, as well a chair that might be useful. The fact that his mind goes to things like that just thrills me to no end. It’s just not something I am used to, but definitely something I enjoy. We nursed our drinks while we waited for a neighboring table of women to leave. They didn’t seem to be budging, but the restaurant had over an hour before it closed so we weren’t worried. It took them a long time to look like they were leaving. Our “plenty of time” turned into about 20 minutes while we smiled at each other and wondered if there were other more privately accessed spots we could enjoy. D did a couple of reconnaissance missions to other areas in the “village” but none were as ideally suited as the bathroom we were waiting for.

The women started working on their check and time was running out so we decided we need to do this now or never. We stole into a conference room that was closed for the night but had been left unlocked. I was pretty sure there were cameras in the room and my private bits were the ones being exposed, so this prevented us from going very far. I was able to ascertain how unconcerned he was about the cameras by the bulge growing in his pants. He noticed the group of women leaving shortly and we booked it back over the coveted bathroom. Safe!

We didn’t really expect anyone to interrupt, but we locked the door and turned off the light to further hide our activities. We immediately started groping each other and I quickly moved to his ear which is his “spot.” I started licking it and whispering in it, “I wasn’t thinking about this at all.” He knew I was lying because his hand was already in my very wet pussy. I could hear how wet I was and it made me smile. His cock was hard against my stomach as I said, “I wasn’t thinking about you bending me over that chair either.” He immediately spun me around and pushed my shoulders down over the bar height stool. He grasped for my soaked panties and pulled them off, followed with his belt and pants. I stroked my pussy while I waited; I was so wet. He teased me a bit with the tip of his cock and then thrust himself into me. “Ooohh!!” I said. He pumped my wet pussy with his hard cock and I couldn’t contain my noises, it felt so good. I told him that and he said, “You’re so wet!” I reached in between his legs and started stroking his balls. He had shaved them and it was all so smooth, I loved it. I drove my pussy harder onto his cock and he got a good grip on my hips and pulled me in to him. I could tell he was really enjoying it, his noises were getting louder and his thrusts were coming more quickly. “It’s so dark in here,” he said. I agreed and continued stroking his balls while I made little noises letting him know how great it felt. “Fuck me D, fuck me!” I said. “You’re going to make me come!” he said so I pushed harder against his cock and stroked with greater pressure. His grip on my hips got even tighter and I knew he was going to come soon. He erupted with a loud growl and a shake of my hips and I giggled at his release. Being in public didn’t make him shy and my bear was there again. I rocked against him as he moved more slowly, milking out his last bit of come into my already drenched pussy.

“Mmmmm, mmmmmm,” he moaned into my back. “Turn around,” he ordered. “Yes sir!” I replied, only too happy to oblige. Nothing but good could come of this. He sat me on the bar stool and kneeled in front of me, propping my feet up on his shoulders. I scooted my pussy to the edge of the chair and he immediately attacked it with a fervor which made it impossible to contain my noises. He attempted to use his mouth and tongue to erase any thoughts of someone finding us. I wanted so badly to let him continue what he was doing because it felt amazing, but in the back of my mind I was really concerned about getting locked into that bathroom as the restaurant closed and triggering the alarms. “Your pussy tastes so good,” he said.
When he pulled back to breathe, I pushed my hand down to my clit and started rubbing it. He took my lead and started to slide his fingers into my pussy and tight ass. I love it when he does that, and he knows it. “This is so erotic to be here with you doing this,” he said. I wholeheartedly agreed. My fingers were rubbing faster and faster and he picked up my rhythm with his hand. We worked together and one of his fingers found my g-spot and I said, “Right there! Right there!” His fingers pumping my ass and stroking my g-spot felt amazing and I told him that. As I chanted to myself “ohmygodohmygodohmygod” and I reached my peak and my back arched as I cried out, unable to contain myself. Stars were exploding behind my tightly shut eyes and I could hear him coaxing me on softly as I spiraled down from my high. “Mmmmmm,” I said and he agreed. “That was amazing,” we both agreed as we quietly laughed and cleaned up.

I know we’re both looking forward to the next “out of order” bathroom we encounter.

He said:

It was a beautiful place...newly built and reminding us of an enclosed mercado complex in Mexico. We first sat at the bar and enjoyed a drink, sharing the events of our days, feeling the excitement of seeing each other. S noticed the decor and colors of the restaurant, liking how it all came together. We soon were feeling the effects of the alcohol. I mentioned to S how I liked her outfit...a tight fitting top and a short cotton camo skirt that really showed off her gorgeous legs !

We chose the open air patio dining as the weather was finally cool enough to enjoy eating outdoors. We were both pleased with our dinner selections, and had the whole patio to ourselves save another party of 6 that occupied a table. Not in a hurry, we thoroughly enjoyed a wonderful conversation about anything that came to mind, listening to each other's views and thoughts in a way that only a couple in love can really understand. Spanish music was playing in the background, reminiscent of the famous Cuban band that played the 'Buena Vista Social Club' in Havana. The night passed by smoothly towards closing time.

The patio had a separate restroom in another building down a single hallway that had a glass door that opened to the patio that wasn't part of the main restaurant. S used it, noticing a tall chair inside the bathroom that might serve a dual 'purpose' !

Noticing how few people were at the restaurant when she returned, I suggested we use the privacy of the newly discovered restroom as a getaway to 'enjoy' ourselves ! We both looked at each other for an extended moment, sensing the excitement and pleasure it would be to enjoy making love in public, in such a beautiful place. Fully knowing we could get caught by the restaurant staff closing down for the evening if they came around locking exterior doors and setting the alarm, we gave each other that sparkled wink in our eyes that said, "Let's do it !"

After the other party had left, we quickly opened the glass hall door, sneaked into the bathroom, locked the bathroom door with the thumb turn, turned the light off and felt for each other. It was pitch black except for the small sliver of light coming thru the bottom of the door from patio lights shining into the hallway. S hugged me and gave her special wet kisses to my ear, knowing that is my sensitive spot. I lifted up S's skirt and grabbed both of her ass cheeks in my hands and squeezed her taught butt muscles. Loosening her bra strap, I held her left breast in my right hand, stroking it gently, feeling her nipple getting harder. S exhaled softly. I reached down her thong panties with my wet finger, gently stroking her clit. I could feel my cock getting hard. S whispered in my ear, "Bend me over the chair". By then, her pussy was so wet I could hear the slurpy sound her drenched pussy makes when responding to the motion of my quickly pulsing finger.
I turned S around, lifted her skirt up over her hips and pulled her panties down, then feeling her large breasts as they were free to move to the motion we created. Quickly unbuttoning my jeans, I pushed them and my underwear down my thighs, placing my cock under her pussy. S guided it back and forth over her clit, knowing that sensation drives me crazy with desire to be inside her. Grabbing both of her hips with my hands, it took only a few thrusts and my cock was deep inside her pussy. I could hear S make a soft groan...I knew she liked it this way...me grabbing her hips and pulling her sexy body hard into mine with every stroke of my hard cock thrusting into her pussy. We could both hear the rhythmic slap of her butt cheeks hitting my thighs and waist.

After a few minutes, I could feel the undulating sensation building inside me, almost ready to cum. I told S, "You're gonna make me cum, baby!" S replied, "Cum for me D, cum for me!" Shortly after, I came inside her pussy, releasing my warm cum with each stroke of my hard cock. We stayed joined together this way for a few minutes, me slowing my strokes down. Wanting to please S even more, I told her to turn around and sit in on the chair facing me. I knelt down and pulled her hips closer to the edge of the chair, my face right where I wanted it to be !

S knew I liked to give her oral. Once I touched her pussy with my mouth, S let out another soft groan. She placed her hand behind my head, gently pressing it against her pussy. I licked her pussy, feeling how wet she was from our intercourse. I could feel her reaction to me stimulating her clit, and wanted to please her even more. At the same time, I gently worked my my right pointer finger in her pussy, and middle finger in her anus just past the first knuckles. I felt S's anus relax as she took my finger deeper inside her ass. S placed her right hand down on her clit, controlling her stimulation with her fingers instead of my tongue. I focused on giving rhythmic strokes to her pussy and anus, telling her how good her pussy tasted. Her body undulating from the stimulation, S soon whispered, "Oh fuck, that feels so good !" After a few minutes, S said, "Right there baby, right there!"...I knew that meant to keep it going because she was close to climaxing. I knew she was close as she would inhale and hold her breath for segments of time, exhaling and feeling all the pleasure in a stronger way.
Soon after, S whispered, "I'm gonna cum, I'm gonna cum !" She arched back, held her breath for a long time, then her body tensed up and released that beautiful soft scream it does at the moment of ecstasy. I stopped stroking her with my fingers but kept them inside her, caressing her inner thighs with my free hand, feeling her thigh muscles twitch with my touch. As I pulled my fingers out, S stood up, me holding her closely.

We turned the bathroom light on, put our clothes back on in, and looked longingly at each other with a giggled grin liked we just pulled off a fabulous escapade (which we did !). Turning off the light, I walked out the bathroom door into the dark hallway up to the glass door to see if the coast was clear. Just then a man walked by in the patio, talking on his cell phone. He passed by, then went back into the restaurant. I told S,"Let's go!", and we scooted out the hallway out onto the patio and into the parking lot with no one seeing us.

A combination of exhilaration (making love this way) and relief (not getting caught) came over me as I thought of what we just did, and where we just did it !!

And we're baaaack!

No magical song today.

I have been overloaded at work with a MAJOR event that happened last Friday. It went swimmingly. The largest event I've done so far, with over 1500 people. We had only glowing reviews from all involved, it was major. But it took up 110% if my time. I was literally working until 10pm and on the weekend. Madness. So this week, I have my kids on a wonky schedule again because of it as "make up" time.

The kids have been better, and not better. Interacting with them had been harder, and easier. I have certainly been more proud of my own responses as of late, which is good. And I think it's helping to create a more even tone between us. Which is nice. But there's a lot of "NO" going on when I ask K to do things. Which of course F learns to respond that way as well. I am going to check back into counseling with K. I think it's a great way for me to learn some parental skills and tools. I mentioned it casually at the last dr appt with F and got some follow up calls from some social workers with some information that will be helpful, now that I have time to look at it. I think we can all benefit from it in some way or another.

I am excited about an upcoming trip to visit my sister in Mass in Dec. I will be there for 9 days. I decided today that I might as well spread out and go see some friends that I've kept in touch with that live around there too. Should be a lot of fun. The trains go every where I want to go and that way I don't need to worry about driving in that weather.

Things with D are going really well. I am growing board of dating. I have a couple of viable options right now, but I am making myself unavailable to meet them based on how much time I spend with D. Which, to be honest, is just fine with me. He's teaching me how to be respected and cherished and those are really rare things to come by. Allowing myself to be treated that well is something new for me too. It's amazing to realize how different life can be when someone treats you with respect. And I am learning a lot about how to be in a relationship too. Because I feel like a different person with D. A better, new improved version of me. We're talking about "me for you, and you for me only" options. I don't think I am done completely with the dating scene yet. Still seeing the value in it, so I'll continue to do it until I don't. Either way, I am really, really enjoying being with D, and have certainly grown to love him at this point. We've been telling each other that for awhile now since I finally decided to listen to my heart, rather than my head. He still makes my stomach do that little jump when he's near. I love it.

Feeling nostalgic, I went back to Daisies for the first time in a REALLY long time today. Not sure why. But I did. Was surprised to find J is not using it. I sort of figured he'd keep it up as an outlet. It was touching to read our last few entries. I didn't go beyond the first page. Not sure what the goal was there. Maybe to see if I am remembered. I certainly remember him, a lot. But I have to say, it's less frequently than it used to be. I hope it's the same for him.

Weather is turning cooler, allergies are back. Things are looking brighter in this crisp fall air. My favorite holiday is coming up, get your pumpkins out. Hope things are well with everyone else too. : )

The Office

Must be doin' somethin right. Watch at 2:48, that's us when we're snuggling at night.

Once upon a time, there was a man and a woman. They loved being with each other, were totally comfortable trying new things and stretching their boundaries. One night she mentioned a fantasy she'd always had about the office. He was intrigued. He said they should try it.

So they did.

I had to go into work a few weekends back because we've got a lot of events happening right now. My boss has been traveling a lot too and that tends to make my work load back up until I can get some face time. To combat this in between trips I sometimes work after hours.

It was Sunday and we had gone for a run when my boss called me to send him an email, that I had already sent. It was almost 8 by the time I got into work, "real quick" and that turned into 3 hours. Poor D fell asleep on the ground. I felt really bad. So when I was done (at 11 pm), I climbed  on top of him to wake him up. That led back to my cubicle, that lead to his pants coming off. And my top coming off, then all our clothes were off. My fantasy was running through our minds, we discussed it and enjoyed as much of it as we could, being only the 2 of us. I layed down on my desk and took him into my throat with my head hanging off the desk. He loves it when I do that with him. He sends me photos and tells me how hot it is when he thinks of us doing it. I was able to get a nice rhythm going and figure out my breathing in conjunction with his thrusts. Yum.
We had watched a bit of porn the night before when a guy had spun a girl around by her neck and I'd told him I thought it was hot. He did that with me on the desk and we both smiled. Was in the perfect position to hold my legs up together while he held my thighs and pounded his hard cock into me. He had one of his famous "bear orgasms" and then had a lovely time enjoying himself in between my legs. I assisted and eventually had a fantastic orgasm, all spurred on my the public nature of the occasion.  I loved that he was game for it and didn't tease about it, then not follow through.

I can cross that one off the bucket list now. Not to say it won't ever happen again. Today he txt'd me and told me how horny he was since we hadn't seen each other in 2 days. He said we should try the stairwell I'd shown him next time.

Lovin' that. : )

My HNT photo for the week reminds me of this song. Spent most of the weekend at his place and he took this picture yesterday morning before I woke up. I had no idea he'd taken it. He likes it when I wear his clothes to bed, then they smell like me after I leave. We've been doing some running together which is great. Gotta keep those legs in shape! Be sure to check in with Os to see who else is playing on HNT.

I run to you

I've had this song on my mind awhile. It's a great song.

Well I have cheered up markedly in the last week which is great. Last weekend was Labor Day and I spent it all with D. We drove up a local mountain to get some heat relief and found a lovely little camp site to hang out at for awhile. We'd brought some fruit and wine and cheese and crackers and smore's makin's. It had been a LOOOONG time since either of us had smores. YUM!! Can't recommend it enough. I had mentioned earlier in the day that there were vegetarian marshmallows and he relayed later that he went to 4 (yes FOUR) different grocery stores looking for them. Apparently the guy at the last one asked how many stores, to which D replied 4 and the guy said, "wow, you must really like her." (insert goofy grin here)
: )

We hung there for awhile, enjoyed some wine, which lead to some nekkid time, which was fun and risky with people clearly in eye sight of where we were. That of course added to the excitement. Watched some stars when we were done. Had a long conversation about our open relationship. We're both still comfortable with it, which is great. Headed down the hill a few hours later to go home. Enjoyed some more of each other which completely exhausted us and we crashed. Woke up, enjoyed an entire day of hanging at the house watching movies. Crazy Heart (eh), Gamer (bad, he actually fell asleep), some porn (lead to some nice action) and finally Backup Plan (better than expected actually). Made corn bread pot pie in the crock pot so it was ready for dinner, YUM. More smores, then more enjoying, then bed.

Woke up Monday, back to my house for supplies, hung out at his neighbor's pool awhile, eventually went to meet his parents where we had dessert. I had met them briefly once before at a jewelry party so it wasn't awkward. And in fact it was nice. They are very proper people, he's ex military and she's a true southern lady. It's all very different than how I grew up. But a nice change. Then we did the local run in the evening and headed back to his place again. It was all very "mundane" and "normal." And nice. Comfortable. Effortless. Somewhere in there I became his babygirl. He mentioned it in a txt at one point later and I said I really liked it. He said, "that's what I think when you're tucked into my arms and I am kissing you good night."

Insert next goofy grin here : )

I was IMing with C from my online dating site last week and he let me know that he's finally ready to meet me. I was super excited but bummed that I had made myself unavailable all weekend with plans with D. But, it's the next week, and guess what, C still hasn't set plans to meet me. Ah well. Certainly not going to push that one.

And Friday it was like old flames day or something, I had 2 people who had been in touch with me previously that I hadn't heard from since my KC trip get in touch with me. One asked if I needed someone to take pics for my blog, no strings attached. I politely declined (he turned out to be kind of a jerk and I wasn't interested in getting back into that drama) and he then proceeded to tell me he was engaged. Sheesh, good thing I'd said no. CERTAINLY don't need that drama. And the other guy was ALL about meeting me ASAP!! Made tentative plans for lunch today. Txt'd him this morning. No response. Again, ah well.

Roomie is going out of town this weekend and D and I are headed to the football game. Should be lots of fun, and he'll come here after, which will be a nice change from packing up 2-4 bags to head to his house every weekend. He'll be meeting my mom and her partner Sunday. He said he was flattered I asked. I think they will like him.

AND, CP will be joining me here on Monday for the day, since I have a forced vacation day. He's the one night stand guy I've mentioned previously. We'll see how that day goes. He is like a big kid. 39 going on 22. I am apparently the oldest person he's dated. He's the youngest person I've dated and it's obvious. He calls me things like dork and goof. Things D thinks are disrespectful and would never dream of saying to me. A good juxtaposition. Not sure how I'll lay that one out to D.

But (I know, don't call you a but), here's my HNT from the mountain. D took it while I was admiring the beautiful fire. Be sure to check out Os to see who else is playing.

Weird spot

I am in a weird mood today. D mentioned via email this morning that he'd had a girl over to the house last night. This was only after I had txt'd him last night to ask if I could call him. Didn't hear back from him for awhile, then his response was "Out for a bit." To which I replied, "Going to bed, night." I was pretty sure he was on a date, even though that wasn't the "protocol" we discussed which would have been "I am busy." Semantics I know, but, out for a bit could have been with buddies, his son etc.

This morning I get an email letting me know that he had someone over, she's interested in getting into a more serious relationship with him, but he's losing interest because he just thinks about me when he's with other people. And "did I do that?"

Well, yeah.

So now I am in this mental funk visualizing him having someone at his house. Where I sit. Where I eat. Where I am.

Not likin' those thoughts very much.

And now I get where he was coming from when we discussed me and my dates in the past. I really thought that I wasn't the jealous type. Does it mean I care more than I thought because it bothers me? That's his take on it when I shared how I felt. I dunno. It may just be part of my expansion and growing through the dating process.

I will say, I cut it off tonight with 3 guys I had gone out on dates with. I did it over text too, is that TOTALY gutless or what? Something along the lines of "I feel like I am not being completely upfront with you. After mentally reviewing our evening, I didn't feel a connection on my part with you. So I wouldn't mind staying in touch with you as friends, but I think that would be the extent of it. No hard feelings?"
They were all very gracious and replied with, no hard feelings, best of luck etc. I just felt like I was leading them all on with the hopes that, oh, they may invite me to their house in San Carlos, etc. Lame. Materialistic. User. I didn't like thinking of myself that way. So, I cut it off. Feel better about myself now. Which is great. And a start. Now I just need to work on those other things I am having an issue with myself over:
Running
Parenting
Time Management
Staying on task at work

That's a good list to start with. I am pretty happy beyond that to be honest. But we all have those little areas we feel like we could improve ourselves. I need to start using "can do" statements. I CAN do that. I can find/make the time to run more to help me keep my weight at a level I want, I can be a better mom, I can be a better, more productive employee etc. Also using these with my kids. Already noticing a difference. Seems to be a good start.

For HNT I'll do one of my "thoughtful" poses. Be sure to check out Os to see who else is playing.

Running - I like it

Oooh yeah I like it! The new nummy Enrique Iglesias, don't stop baby, just keep on shakin' my love!

I spent the last couple of nights with D and it's been great. I had a couple of dates on Sunday and that created a "we need to talk" situation with D. We had a long talk about the "open relationship" and me dating and him dating and what that meant to us an how we would continue to handle it. We got it all worked out, which is fantastic. I am a big fan of the communication that we have. And the fact that he's willing to talk about it even if it makes him uncomfortable. How very grown up.

So the at work visit the other day was a lot of fun. He arrived and we went next door and scouted out the bathrooms. They were both busy so we stood around and waited and chit chatted a bit. Then we were able to acquire a bathroom while no one else was in the hallway, discretely. : )

I was surprised to see there was a bench in the bathroom, how convenient!! That was going to come in VERY handy, I immediately insisted he sit on it and started unbuckling his pants. After getting his already hardening cock out I wrapped my lips around it. He loved it and moaned. He had brought the camera an pulled it out now and started snapping pictures of me working his cock. It was tasty and I could hear him snapping shots.

"Don't get distracted with the camera," I said.
"I won't," he replied.

 Snap

Snap

Snap


It was really fun to be in the bathroom, knowing there were people walking by in the hallway outside. All that stopped them from seeing us was a little lock on the door. This of course made us both hotter.

You could hear their footsteps, hear them checking to see if the bathroom was available, it SO wasn't : ).
He stood me up at one point and bent me over the storage cabinet that was there and pounded away at me, both of us stifling our sounds but still loving every minute.

I sat him back down and eventually finished him off. I could tell it was really hard for him to be quiet, he's typically QUITE vocal about his release. I giggled and smiled at how much he was enjoying it.

He took this picture while we were straightening up, he said, "You have such great legs." That's his POV of my sassy legs and shoes.

So I went Friday and got another Brazilian wax. This one was MUCH less painful and she literally got it done in like 15 minutes. I was shocked how much better it was. I'll post pics when I am home again.

Last night we participated in a local little walk/run that happens every Monday night here. He's trying to get back into shape and I am encouraging him by inviting him to things like that. It's so much better to be able to work out with someone rather than making the time to do it without them, which takes away spending time with him. I think we're both really going to enjoy it and I am certainly looking forward to participating more.

Daffodils

Song of the day: Baby I'm in. Love, love, LOVING this song by Keith Urban right now. If you need a lover and a friend...

I was so honored to be chosen as the Mystery Guest today! I think of this blog really as a diary. As events happen I think about how I am going to word them, or how a photo would accent a post. But if I miss posting it or sharing that thought, it's ok, it's just for me. Well, apparently others are watching and that just tickles me pink! : ) I was really pleased that Os picked the poem that he did. Daffodils are very special to me because of J. The constant back and forth was which flower was my favorite? Daisies. No, he'd correct me, they're daffodils. No, daises, daffodils, etc... So it  made me smile in my heart when Os picked that.

I have a wedding to go to this Saturday. And I think I may actually have a dinner date on Sunday. I am at the point where I rate all potential dates on how badly I want to see them vs the time they take away from D. We pretty much spend all our spare time together, which I love. It's like having a home base but with the freedom to explore other people. An open, semi-but-not-committed relationship, who knew?! : )

Tuesday night D didn't say the words "do you want to stay over" or some variation on that, so I didn't assume I would. It's a long haul from my house to ANYWHERE (15 minutes just to the freeway, then another 10 minimum to anywhere) so if I am going to stay over at his place I have to plan in advance since he's 30 mins away in good traffic. I planned for staying over Sunday and Monday. Then Tuesday rolled around and I had a little Girls Night Out jewelry party for a friend and hadn't planned to stay with him. Didn't have enough meds,  clothes, had to send off pics to Os for HNT MG, and my laptop stays at home, etc. So the end of the night rolled around and I went back to his place to pick up my stuff he was surprised to find I wasn't staying. I said, well, you never "officially" invited me and I didn't want to assume, since we're not boyfriend/girlfriend anymore, that I could just stay over. He was so disappointed. And then so was I. Awww. I really wanted to stay. But I really wanted to go home and send off my photos too! So, to say we spend most of our free time together isn't really stretching it much.

Last night I was gathering up the boys to head them upstairs for shower and their 3 simple steps (think Special Agent Oso - fun version) and Roomie's dog Maggie started doing crazy dog laps in the house. You know, when they are running around in circles through all the rooms in the house while you just try to stay out of their way? Well, I was moving to the side, she dodged where she THOUGHT I was going, and, BAM!! I end up on my ass on the tile floor. I was pretty lucky I didn't hit my head on the wall that was a foot away. So, now my bum, wrist and ankle are all a little sore. I am hoping they don't hurt tomorrow. I plan to do some dancing at the wedding this weekend!

So I am not entirely pleased with the way the I Kissed a Girl post turned out. I think I will supplement it at some point. It didn't really have the effect that I wanted. Keep an eye out for that.

Today, I have plans to have D to work at lunch time for a little afternoon delight in a private bathroom I know about. That should be fun. I invited him yesterday for lunch but he wasn't able to make it. So, I tempted him with this bit of texting yesterday when he let me know he was done for the day with work:

Me: Yay! Time for you to come over here so I can attack you.

D: Very tempting babe! We could find a hideaway spot for some public sex ; )

Me: Just thinking of all the private bathrooms I know about... And what I am going to do to you in them.

D: Yum! OK... give me a little "for example..." please?

Me: I would take you over to the next building and find one of the private bathrooms. The door would lock and I would push you against the door and drop to my knees. Your belt would come off first. Then your pants, unzipped. Next your cock comes out and I wrap my mouth around it. You've been thinking about this so you're a little hard already. (ELO Evil Woman is playing right now).

D: Awesome visual... I'm so there! Can you actually make that happen?

Me: Yup ; )

D: Tomorrow at lunch?

Me: Yep if you want to come here.

D: Hell yeah I want to cum there! ; ) When is good for u? Meet 1st at your office?

Me: Lol, eager all of a sudden. 1130ish, noon, 1, whatever.

D: Kind of a big deal don't u think?

Me: Why do you think I invited you over today lover?

D: Thx! But just making sure ur not gonna get in trouble... or is that part of the fun? ; )

Me: Not going to get in trouble. That's what lunch breaks are for right?

D: Absolutely. U want me to bring my camera?

Me: Bring whatever you'd like. 11:30 works and I am flexible.

D: Ok 11:30 it is. My treat for lunch after. Bring ur vibrator too.
Me: Oooooo! That WOULD be interesting! And great for pics...
D: You like the way I'm thinkin I see!!

Me: Always baby. That's why I keep you around. You're fun in all the right ways. : )

D: ; )

Me: I am SO looking forward to having your cock in my mouth tomorrow. Wish it was now.

D: Oohhh baby! Me too. And ur pussy in my mouth ; )

Me: (Big inhale) YUM!

D: Breathe deeply & softly my love! ; )

So I'll recap in the next post because by the time I post this, it will have already happened : ) Hopefully I'll have some great before shots for the Brazilian I have scheduled tomorrow. I'll post those with the recap. Until then, here's my HNT for the day! At some point I will figure out how to do those click throughs but, not today! Happy HNT and be sure to stop by Osbasso to see who else is playing!

Fantasy #3

I was at the pool on vacation in KC and D and I were sexting back in forth. I was letting him know I was checking out the hot girls at the pool and wondered what we’d do with one of them. This is what transpired and part of the reason I enjoy D so much and keep him around. He plays along...


D: U start

Me: We are in my room just back from the pool where we spent the last hour swimming and enjoying each other and our almost naked bodies.

D: I help take off ur bikini. Ur nipples are so hard from the AC, & u help me out of my suit, noticing a slight bulge in front as u pull down my trunks…

(D sent this pic entitled: “waiting for you to suck”)

Me: As I take down your trunks I sink down and take your cock in my mouth. I love it like this because I can take you all in my mouth. I slowly roll you around in my mouth while holding your tight ass.

D: I feel the back of ur throat against the tip of my cock as u swallow so deep. I hold ur hair back w my hand & watch u devour me over n over

Me: You grow bigger and harder with each lick bite and suck. I start to fondle your balls and squeeze them gently. You are so hard now you want to come but have other ideas.

(D says “what a smokin’ hot ass u’ve got ; ))


D: Just then I hear a knock at the door… it’s the hottie u saw at the pool. She took u up on the offer to join us for a drink in our room…

Me: Oooo all the better! We quickly discuss the limits and a safe word. "Orange." She and I kiss and I caress her tight breasts as you remove her bathing suit. You linger on her…

D: …tattoo on her ass as she wants me to see it. She turns to look down & notices ur work of my cock so hard. Shes really impressed w ur body & smile & says…

Me: What a nice tight body I have. Do you work out? Yes and I run and you, I ask? Your figure is what drew me to you. I am stroking my fingers up and down her body while talk and so is she. My fingers find their way down to her wet pussy. Yes she says meanwhile you are…

D: Marveling at 2 beautiful women very into the moment. She asks u if its OK to have ur man join in cuz she wants to do a 3 way, but has never done one…

Me: Yes that was the idea I tell her. I haven’t done ths before either I say so we will figure it out together. This seems to make her more comfortable and I kiss her. You are …

D: I am sensing you both want to explore each other so I make each of us a drink & put on some sensual music, light some candles & tell u girls to get in bed.

D: My favorite place… yum ;) very nice pic!

(I take a shower and call D to let him know)

D: While ur in the shower, I ask our friend what she most wants from a three way. Shy at first, but then her drink takes hold…

D: & then she says she’s always fantasized about a 3 way, watched porn to see how it can b, but never felt like the time was right till now.

D: She asks what’s a spot u have that turns u on. I tell her ur upper back when u kiss it & gently push ur lips into it. U then come out of the shower and

D: Are naked without a towel. U come over to me, French kiss me, then bend down, take my cock in ur mouth & suck it for a minute. U then go over to her &…

D: U go over to her & French kiss her gently, then whisper in her ear that u want her to suck ur man’s cock right now while u watch…

D: I see her move my way. I stand & she says she wants to swallow my huge cock whole. I go to the chair, sit down & have her kneel in front of me.

Me: Yum! Don’t stop! Fuck I want your cock so bad right now!

D: I tell her I want u both to suck my cock together. U kneel down & take turns sucking & licking my cock till I’m so hard & stiff I can’t stand it…

D: I tell u both to lie down on ur backs beside each other & sat I’m gonna throat fuck u both so hard. She hasn’t done that before, so we start together…

D: U tell me after I throat fuck her u want to give her oral at the same time. She says OK. U move into place & begin licking her pussy…

D: At this point, she is moaning so loud & feeling ur tongue in her pussy that she says this is the best sex shes ever had & to do with her anything we want.

D: At this point, excited about other positions, I don’t want to cum yet. I tell u its ur turn now to please urself with her while I watch… U start by…

Me: Who do you fuck first my stud?! Ooo her! Save some for me!

D: Nope its ur show w her first b4 I get some fuckin’ done…and u 1st of course! U narrate now…

Me: I start with her pussy. You are sitting in the chair. I crawl up her body and whisper: Can he take pictures? She nods as I kiss her. I crawl off her and move over to you. I kiss you deeply and stroke your hard cock.

D: I want to see u both lick each other 69 style w u on top. U agree, and really show me how u can eat pussy which turns me on…

Me: You are taking pictures from all angles. Each snap is hotter than the next because I am really getting into it and learning what she likes.

D: She says I should take a picture of u deep throating my cock on ur back while she licks & fingers ur pussy.

Me: I agree that’s a great idea and assume the position. She crawls over to my pussy and tentatively starts to lick me. Youtell her what to do while I scuk and lick your cock.

D: She watches u swallow up my cock with ur arched neck over the bed. She pleases ur clit so much u cum right then while she feels ur thighs twitch.

Me: Are you able to keep from coming from fucking my mouth while she makes me come?

D: Yes, U want to return the gavor for her & switch places. She works to relax her throat w/o gagging while u finger & lick her clit. She moans in pleasure.

Me: I climb up to whisper in her ear. She listens and does what I say. I finger her pussy to relax her and shes able to breathe and take you all the way in. I move down her body marveling at how different it is from a mans. I can tell you are being gentle with her but enjoying it a lot. I take pics so you can both see what I see later. You

D: Ur pussy is still tingling while u make her cum. I hold back on cumming while I throat fuck her, then us say u want my cock in ur pussy.

D: I tell her to spread her legs over ur mouth while ur on ur back. I tell her to guide mu cock into ur wet pussy while u lick her clit. I slam my cock deep…

Me: And I gasp into her pussy. You kiss her and fondle her breasts while you fuck me and watch as she enjoys while I lick her.

D: U make her have another small orgasm at the same time I make u cum. She asks u if its OK if I can fuck her too while she licks ur pussy & u take the pics.

Me: I tell her I would love to and we switch spots. I can tell you are getting close to coming and I sit on her face and let her lick me. I kiss you and hold the base of your cock tight while you pound away at her wet pussy.

D: I tell u I’m ready to cum, and let u decide how u want to have my huge load of cum…

Me: She tells us she wants you to cum in her mouth and gets onto her knees to receive your load. I take pictures and watch as you stroke yourself off into her mouth.

D: after I shoot my cum in her mouth w her lips open, I tell her to cum share French kiss you. I whisper in ur ear that I want to ass fuck you while she watches.

D: U get on all 4’s, and she spits some of my cum from her mouth on ur asshole and slowly inserts her finger in ur hole. I then have u hold mu cock & u begin to…

Me: Slide your cock around my pussy to keep you nice and hard while she works my ass open for you . I am rocking against her hand and your cock and moaning and sucking hear breasts. Ready I guide your cock into my ass.

D: U tell me to fuck ur ass so hard till u scream from the pleasure. I get so stiff while I’m fucking you I’m ready to cum again. U shout ‘cum for me baby’ & I do.

Me: Sigh, lovely.

D: I collapse & am completely spent. U girls want to spend the night in bed w me in between.

Just to try it...

As previously mentioned, I had a blast in Kansas City and that included making out with a girl for the first time. It was fun, and interesting, and new, and different, and sort of what I expected and I would probably do it again. The lyrics to this song are entirely appropriate, "not what I planned, not my intention, got so brave drink in hand, just wanna try it on, I'm curious, you caught my attention." While I was in KC I was sex/txting with a few guys back at home, D, being one of them and another, new I haven't mentioned, named C. The following is the txing that happened through out the night when I met this girl and one thing led to another. "L" mentioned is my friend that I went on vacation with. It may be a bit choppy, but I was sort of channeling Frances and Daniel and felt like it was an entertaining way to tell the story. D was sending me shots of the porn he was watching and the girl, "R" was looking at the shots with me while we were bored at the awards ceremony.

D: Does L watch porn?

Me: I dunno but R from CO. does and we are enjoying the hell out of it! L isn’t sitting w me.

D: Say Hi to R for me! Is she drunk too?

Me: Hell yeah! We are being the ridiculous drunks together tho so its fun.

D: Is she at ur same hotel?

Me: No damnit!

D: Close by… a cab ride away?

Me: OMG she just told me I could be her first gog action but we both have girls in our rooms and I would SO do her too!

C: I love your grin in this one (photo of me at conference)

Me: Thanks! Where are you I am missing your txts!

C: Sorry been getting ready. I’m heading out.

Me: Grr how are you going to keep me hot and wet for you? I am getting ready to have my first girlgirl action here!

D: Work it girl! U & she make it happen ; )… even if its leave a bit early & only have 20 mins together b4 the other girls come back @ ur or her hotel.

D: U work out hooking up w R?

Me: Trying she is up for it. We should find a bathroom and go at it. You liken this?

D: Hell yeah! Bathroom idea is great. U can see if u click 1st, then want do more. She’s pretty…how’s her body…hot?

Me: Yes shes a yoga instructor need I say more?

C: On no… no friends taking pictures of me.

Me: why not shes willing I am willing we just need to find a place both our rooms are full. Bathroom?

C: I’m not saying u shouldn’t, no way.

Me: Yes we both have someone else in our room.

D: Cool! U still sharing & enjoying my porn feed? Trying to find some girl-girl action…

Me: Yes we are both enjoying it. But we are enjoying the action shots more than the creampies.

D: Ok. Did she want to sneak away to the bathroom w u now?

Me: Maybe should we take pics?

D: Only if I can see! ; ) I’m so excited for u…do u think it’s gonna happen?

Me: Yes we are discussing the private bathroom downstairs. Fuck!

D: Go for it!!

Me: We are waiting for the bathroom now.

D: She ok w pics?

Me: Yes

C: well bathroom wont be fun for long though

Me: I know but it was good for awhile. ; ) yum! First woman! Done!

C: No way already?

Me: Yes back at my hotel alone wishing I could finish what she and I started. I need some cock, sigh.

C: What did u guys do? Make out? Did u get any pussy? Better yet, did she get any of ur beautiful pussy?

Me: We made out I bit her and bit on the neck she said no marks, darn! We groped each other all over I started the fingering, she kept up. I ate her then we kissed and groped some more and she ate me a bit. Then people were knocking on the door by then so we stopped and she went out to smoke and I came back here.

C: How was it? What was the feeling? Do you know her?

Me: Met her tonight. I was taller. Shes a yoga instructor. It felt fun but rushed. Soft and tentative on her part. Def felt like I was leading but she was willing. Is that how it feels for a guy?

C: Soft and tentative. Well I guess even in a situation like that someone leads and someone follows. It’s not like u had the time to “switch rolls”

C: I am actually more curious as to how the conversation even starts.

I reassured him he'd hear all about it when we met. We have yet to do so, but I am hopeful that happens at some point. Reading through this it was definitely more entertaining while it happened. But. That was the gist of it. Alexa posted this right after and I thought it fitting. She titled it "Been there..." ; )

The Mysterious Dafs

Ok ya'll I have been SO busy at work and in my personal life that this has just fallen to the wayside a bit. I actually have several posts that I just haven't even gotten to the web yet. And MAN are they good. Let's just say, Katy Perry "I kissed a girl" will be the chosen song. : ) And I think I liked it.
Kansas City was a blast, dating has been fun/disappointing/entertaining etc. D is still around, still enjoying LOTS of time with him. Still just dating.
Work work work work work and then I work some more. Then I rush around for a date and D and then the kids come and I barely have time to RUN much less blog. Maybe I should utilize the email to blog option more...
Well, anyway.
I shot tons of HNT photos while I was in KC, but they are all at home and I am being bad and posting from work. I haven't even been reading other blogs, I am so behind.

I will try my hardest to post a few things this weekend, photos included and the recounting of how I kissed a girl.
Until then I'll leave you with this one of me, which goes with the forthcoming one night stand story...
Smooches!
; )

Girl just look at you

I know a spot down on the river underneath the sycamore tree. Save all your kisses up, bring all your sweet love, pour it all over me. I am IN LOVE with this song right now. It just makes me SMILE and SMILE and SMILE. I need to just buy the album and get it over with. It just makes me want to dance. It's so sexy.

So, dating is going to be fun. I am certainly having fun teasing the boys online. I am in Kansas City on vacation with a friend (L) for a national conference she's attending. I am just along for the ride 'cause it's a free hotel room and some free food because she was able to get me a pass to the conference. Hard to pass that up, so I didn't! I have all those vacation days to burn still, so I am HOPING I'll be able to do some quick 3 day weekend trips in the future. Roomie is talking about hitting San Carlos again, she needs to sign some paperwork.

As part of my vacation, L was able to get us some discounted spa passes so I used Mystic Tan for the first time. I noticed some stickers as I was wandering around so I posted the following pic to the 4 or so boys I am getting to know (one of which includes D, who I am keeping in the herd for some sex : )).

They all said either the playboy bunny or kisses on either lower back or "near your pussy." So, bunny went lower back and kisses went above my pussy.

But the bunny didn't really take, too bad, it was cute, if not a little typical.

The kisses aren't really as red as it looks, they are bad photos. But, what do you think? I will post more follow up shots. I may have mentioned I am growing out for a total brazilian, so please excuse the unkemptness.

Did I mention that I had a little fun at D's on Sunday before I left on vacation? It was some great sex in the bathroom. All about mirrors and looking at each other's bodies, which looked great together, I might add. More great fucking in the ass, yummy, love that! Then he attacked my pussy with a vigor that was a little overwhelming. Eventually he used his hand in my ass where he had just come which felt AMAYZING. Whew! It was great stuff, good for lots of memories later and ensuing wetness. *sigh* It also helped with the orgasm I had at the spa yesterday. This is the shot after the O of my "hydrated" breast and legs.

So, onward and hopefully upward with my boys and the fun.

Mental Masturbator

I wanna celebrate and live my life

I know it's been a bit, but, things have done a complete 180 since I last posted and I am working through it.
I think I've mentioned I get cold sores. Or maybe I haven't. Either way, I do. And apparently I was the first person EVER that D experienced that has them. Sooooo I could go into the whole sordid story, but it's too long, let me sum up.
He mentioned last week while we were hanging out here watching a movie that he "thinks he might be falling in love with me." My reaction was a sharp intake of breath and turning away so I could think about how to respond. I basically told him I didn't feel that way, respected that he had shared that with me, didn't fault him for feeling that way, but wanted to take some time to get to know him to see if those feelings developed. He later told me he thought I handled it well.  Fast forward a few days later, I get a cold sore and he's like WHAT? What is that, what does that mean, how long will it be there, can I get it, how long would I have it... etc. Total lack of ANY knowledge about them at all. So, I gave him a link to a webpage and encouraged him to do some research. He said he was going to need a few days to figure out how he felt about this new development. *sigh* Ok. Fast forward a couple days, we meet and I am pretty darn sure he's going to break up with me. Yup. He breaks up with me after a couple of hours of discussion. I didn't try to convince him to stay, I don't need to. I am worth staying for. And if he was "thinking me might be...", anyway.  I brought up the comment that he'd made about if we were committed to each other that meant we could work through anything, as long as we WANTED to. I said, where do cold sore fit in there...? Uhhhhh.
Yeah, what I thought. He let me know he's not the kind of guy to change his mind when he makes up his mind, it's not respectful of me and my feelings, etc.

So, because I was willing to be mature and we'd already made plans to watch a movie together the next day, I went forward with that to see how "friends" felt. It felt awkward. And I let him know it. Which led to us NOT watching the movie, but talking again for a couple of hours about how I thought he had responded in fear and it was a knee-jerk reaction. I didn't appreciate that he didn't trust me to keep his health and safety first and foremost when I have cold sores. (k I am realizing this isn't the short version) He agreed he hadn't done that, but realized that he still didn't know all that he could about cold sores. I answered questions, told him some more information, told him how I'd handled it with partners in the past etc. I asked if he regretted his decision to break up with me. He said he did, and that doesn't normally happen. I said, well, do you regret it enough for there to be a chance to get back together? He said yes. So, we talked about how that might happen. Then he got around to admitting that, oh, by the way, he really was mad about my reaction from when he'd made that comment last week.
REALLY?
Really?
So, we talked about that awhile. Which led to the agreement that we'd date. And date other people. And feel it out to see how it went. And we started the movie again. And that led to, well, can I touch you here? Yes. Here? Yes. Here? Yes.
Which led to me being able to cross off a bucket list item. Sex while standing up and him holding me up, legs around his waist. Nummy. And to make it even better, there was a mirror I watched it all in.
It was great.
Wake up the next morning in his bed, have sex again. He says he wants to think about how he wants to proceed as friends. Go home, go to work next day, we IM and I ask how the thinking is going, that I had been thinking too. He says he has made up his mind to move on, but doesn't want to lose me. I respond with, well, then, good luck, it's been fun knowing you, thanks for your time and patience with my newness to the market. I told him I'd like to be able to check in on him at some point and hoped he'd feel comfortable to do the same. We said goodbye.
Then I cried. Really didn't expect to. Sorta surprised me that I did. Ok, really surprised me that I did. He was a nice guy and I don't regret spending time with him. But, he's going down as guy #5. Halfway to the goal of 10!
Back on the dating webpage, got a few takers already. Having fun but haven't met anyone yet. Staying up WAY too late chatting. Going on vacation all next week, really looking forward to it.

So, I wasn't able to acquire any photos, but this was buzzing around today from Alexa, so I am posting it as my HNT. Happy HNT and be sure to stop by Osbasso to see who else is playing!

Fierce!

Alexa tweeted about this pic and I couldn't pass it up. These boots are FIERCE and Sharon Stone looks HOT. I think it's from this magazine. It was last year when she was 50 and I hope when I am her age I look as good as her. YUM. 

Babe

So I am sitting here, trying really hard not to think about you. Which of course, just means, I am thinking about you.
This song came on and reminded me of the other night when I told you the music was distracting me...

You get up and leave the dark room to change it. I stretch on the bed, luxuriating in the feel of our love on my body. Mmmmmm. You come back, the candle is flickering in the night next to the bed. I love it when you light that candle. Something I wouldn't think to do, but so thoroughly enjoy. I love how it casts a delicate light on our bodies as they twine together. I love seeing our bodies together. Yours so strong and masculine, mine soft and curvy.

You come to the bed and lift my legs up. I love when we're together this way. I love seeing my legs against your chest and feeling you push in as far as you can go. It makes my eyes widen and I whisper, " Babe!" It. Feels. SO. Good.
You try that for a bit, gazing down my legs at yourself entering my body. My wetness. Ready for you. I grab your thigh to help pull you in. I love your tight ass. Love squeezing it while we explore each other. The candle is flickering, casting a warm orange glow over the scene. Just enough light to see your gorgeous smile by. To hold your eyes while you thrust into me.

You move my leg to the side and angle my body a bit, one leg still up. You seem to really like that position, lord knows I do too. It gives me great access to your boys down below. I stroke them and can tell you like it, your head goes back and your eyes close. Then you come back to me and a sly grin comes over your face. You're stroking me in and out, I am stroking you. The noises I make when you do this to me, I love it. It feels like it should never end.

You put both legs down, "turn over." I love it when you tell me what you want. Love. It. I love being your play toy, leg here, turn here, push there, suck there.
Yes please sir, may I have another?

I roll over onto all fours and you begin to gather my hair while you sink your hard cock into my waiting wetness. "OH!" Mmmmmmmmmm. Again, the noises you make me make. You use my hair as a holding spot, other hand on my hip, pulling me in. I can only imagine what this looks like from your vantage point, candle light glowing on my back as I arch into you. I want to stroke your cock and balls so badly, but it feels so good to have you slamming into me like that. oh, Oh, OH!

I brace my hands against the headboard for better purchase. This helps me slam my hips into your cock, god it feels so good. I can tell you're really enjoying it, both hands are gripping my hips now and your noises are starting. My own bear, my very personal and private bear comes to life right about now. I love it when he shows up. Love that I can make him cum. You grunt and gasp and growl and I know you're about to explode. You shout out and I feel how hard your cock is right before you release. Your hands move wildly all over my body and you shudder and shake as you come inside me.  It makes me giggle and smile.

You lay across my back for a bit, not wanting to part. Slowly, slowly you move away, still growling and gasping for breath. This lasts longer with you than anyone I have known. I love how long you experience this happiness. This oblivion and loss of words. You lay down next to me and I lower myself down to the bed. I watch in the candle light as you return to me, opening your eyes which are heavy and satisfied. I am smiling my sly smile, happy with this outcome. Pleased to have been a part of your high. You smile in return and say "on your back," another command I follow promptly to start round two.

10

Your Love Is My Drug, Ke$ha - ridiculous I know, lol.

I am giggling like a school girl and emitting sounds I didn't really know possible on a regular basis at this point. Every time I see D it just gets better and better. I relay my tales of the time we spend together to friends and they ask "Is there anything this guy DOESN'T do?" I smile my sly smile and say, "Not that I am aware of."

• He gives great massages, willingly.
• He cooks, and LIKES to cook. We work like a well-oiled machine in the kitchen, he does his thing, I do mine, not getting in each others way, but no words are spoken. It just gets done. Roomie and I operate this way as well, but it's taken 10 years to get there. And the end result is YUM-IE.
• He's handy around the house. Roomie has a long Honey-do list and he's helped with several things on it already. Without complaining about it, or making her or me feel inconvenienced.
• He's up for trying new things.
• He's attentive to my needs, he whipped out some socks the other day when he found my feet where cold (while going to massage them). Then he put them on for me.
• He snores like a mack truck, but has already slept in another room multiple times so I can sleep through the night. Plus he's looking into ways to make it stop with his doctor (took ex 9 years to do this and it never actually stopped.)
• He's great in bed and SUPER attentive to me. Won't stop til I come, which, is a great change and lovely.
• He's totally in charge of and owns his emotions - SUCH a change. He doesn't freak out if I bring something up out of the blue. Roomie asked me when we'd be moving in together, I laughed and laughed. Then realized she was serious. I said, that's not happening ANY time soon. When I relayed this story to D, he replied with "I wonder why she said that?" and proceed to tell me what he thought of it (hadn't even given it a thought) and asked what I thought too.
• He's a good listener without judging.
• He's a good dad and really cares about and for his son.
• He likes to dance and is a great singer, which I find adorable.

All in all, he makes me strive to be a better person, which is really, I think, the most you can hope for with someone. We are going to a concert for the 4th to see some fireworks. I am really looking forward to hanging with him and getting to know him even better.

Here's a Bo Derek shot that I wasn't aware Roomie took while we were in San Carlos. Happy HNT and be sure to stop by Osbasso to see who else is playing!

He can tell a tale

Wheat, Can't Wash it Off (click on "radio one" then the "can't wash it off" link)

I was surprised and very, very pleased to discover today my beau has the gift for writing. I randomly emailed him a list of vacation spots yesterday and suggested maybe the Columbia one would be great for bikini wearing.

He sent me this lovely email as a reply:

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OK...I could do Columbia.

We know the language enough to pass for gringos who try to be polite and not butcher the mother tongue of the natives.

Hummm.....envisioning a private beach we discover on an afternoon walk...it's breezy and slightly cool, partly cloudy with sunshine predicted for later in the day.

We pack a light snack, local fruit, and water.  Eager to explore, we come across a hidden, pristine grotto where a waterfall and freshwater finally meet the ocean.

Deciding that swimsuits aren't necessary, we wade into the 4 ft deep pool in the middle and enjoy massaging each other's backs in the tepid water.  We progress toward the waterfall and sit under the downflow it produces, feeling the pressure hit our bodies while holding each other close.

Seeing a recessed area behind the waterfall, I take your hand and lead you to a soft beach spot right there. We share the tropical fruit we brought, each feeding the other sensually.  Laying you down on your back while I kiss and lick every inch of your beautiful bronzed body, you writhe in joy while I ever so gently bring you to a magnificent climax as we make love to celebrate our passion and discovery!  Exhausted, we fall asleep to the sound of the waterfall, waking hours later to walk back to our private cabana then slowing down to watch an unforgettable sunset off in the distance as seagulls pass by, marking the end of another day in paradise.

After another nap, we shower and dress for a night of dinner with strong tropical drinks.  Later the band sets up and we enjoy romantic slow dancing to native love songs played by a live band...a sortof cross between Marley, Elbow and Finger Eleven! Holding each other close, we stumble back to our cabana, fall into bed, sound asleep in each other's arms, smartly leaving the 'Do Not Disturb' sign outside our door along with the signed menu of our favorite morning breakfast treats, chai tea, coffee and juice to be served via room service around 11AM. 

You like ?  : )
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 Mmmm, I like. I like very, very much.

Letter to friends and family

Paralyzer "I'm not paralyzed but I seem to be struck by you"

6/22/10
"I wanted to let you know I met a really nice guy named D from my online dating profile and we've decided to date exclusively. Yes I know it's sudden, but I have done a lot of work to prepare a "List" of what I am looking for in a person. He fits every item on my list, and it's not a short list.  We've hung out quite a bit already and I haven't felt the awkwardness or anxiousness that I was dreading with the "dating" scene. We totally skipped right past that. It's fantastic and comfortable and he puts me at ease.

I don't think that I need to force myself to "experience dating" and all the ups and downs and anxiety, expense, loneliness and frustration (from what I've been told) that comes along with it. I think I have found someone that I am SUPER comfortable with, feel like I can be myself with and really enjoy being around and thus don't really feel like I need to put that aside just to say "I've dated."

He has been divorced for 9 years, he's 49 and has a 19 year old son. He gets what it means to be a parent and that I am not available when I have the kids. I don't plan to introduce them anytime soon. I'll see how things go with D and me first.

I wanted to keep you all posted on my happenin's. I am sure you'll be hearing more about D in the future. He's great and I really like him. Roomie has met him several times and agrees with me. She's also let him know that he's got "precious cargo" and needs to take care.

This Sunday while we were watching soccer I met a friend of his (who told D while I was in the bathroom, "she's a keeper, don't let her go")."


Until I acquire photos of our exciting evening and bedroom activities, I'll add another photo from San Carlos.
Happy HNT and be sure to stop by Osbasso to see who else is playing!

Check "yes" or "no"

Cooler than the flipside of my pillow, that's right.

Wow, I just don't even know where to begin. Last I wrote I mentioned D and how we had clicked immediately,  he stayed over, etc. We spent the next 3 days together as time permitted and it continued to feel very much the same way. As if I had known him for a year and there was no need for the awkardness or anxiousness that I was dreading with the "dating" scene. We totally skipped right past that. It's fantastic and comfortable and he puts me at ease.

Then Wednesday rolled around and he requested a "breather" because I had my kids and he needed to "evalute if his thoughts matched his emotions." He was trying to figure out if we are a good match.

This was an ENTIRELY appropriate way to proceed, I mean realistically I am not available during that time frame anyway, right? I've got my kids, I can't go out with someone when I have them, and he knew that. So, why did I convince myself in 3 days that he didn't want to see me anymore? Well because I am silly and overthought it and needed Roomie to help put things in perspective. She was going out of town to the lake over the weekend and we sat and chatted while she packed on Thursday night. She reminded me that there was NO indication on his part that he didn't want to see me anymore, he was just as smitten with me as I was with him and YES she was sure he would be coming over and spending the night on Saturday. I said, well, when you explain it like that, I realize I am being a bit silly. Just making up stories in my head. Which is easy to do when you're as tired as I was (lack of sleep and all). I got extra lucky with her being out of the house for the weekend and also that his son was out of town too.

So moving into Saturday night when he was coming over I was anxious and a little awkward with him. I didn't know where we stood. I wanted to give him time to think and respect his request for a breather. I think he thought I hadn't really given any thought as to why I thought we were "good" together. Why I thought we were a match. I mean we had just barely met right? But the amount of time we'd spend together, a good portion of it talking, had made me realize how many of my requirements he fits. So I decided that the only way I could explain why I thought we were a good match was to share my "relationship list" with him.

So we perusued my list on Saturday after we'd had homemade spaghetti and he agreed that yes he fit all of my requirements with a few variations on the "sex" one: "A man who is sexually compatible with me and is sexually adventurous with a desire for trying new things, including being with another girl or guy, a good kisser and loves giving and receiving oral sex." We had a conversation about that requirement and was the other guy/girl part mandatory, was a it a deal breaker, was it a bucket list kind of thing - I wouldn't feel satisfied with my life until I'd done it, etc? I explained it was a bucket list sort of item, and that he fit the rest of the requirement with no problems. We chatted more about that and I think reached an understanding that allowed him to move on from that issue.

So, long story short, I have a boyfriend. And I am a girlfriend. We're both shocked and surprised and a little scared about how quickly this moved to this stage. I simply wasn't expecting to find someone literally on date one. I mean, who does that happen to? Well, me, us, apparently : ). We agreed to remove our profiles from the web page we met at as a result.

So today we went to a local bar to watch soccer with a friend of his and while I was in the bathroom I was given the green light by the friend and D was told "she's a keeper, don't let her go."

I am a little (ok a lot) giddy over him and am really excited to see where this goes. I really enjoy my time with him and look forward to when I can be with him again. It's just so easy and relaxed and comfortable. He's a real gentleman and I am not used to that so when he does sweet things, it catches me off guard and makes me like him that much more.

Best of all, he makes me smile.
All the time.

This is my new favorite view with him, this isn't us, but, gets you the idea.

And I think this is his favorite view from last night, again, for illustration purposes only.

First Date

La Roux - Bulletproof

My first night of hitting the town as a single lady was last night. Roomie decided to take me to a local bar that she frequents and I was up for it. I have been corresponding with several people on the online dating site and I had several invitations for a date but I decided to stick with my BFF.

As the day progressed I checked my dating web page messages and exchanged a couple with someone I was intrigued by. We'll call him D. D was out with his friends and I let him know that we'd be heading to the bar later. He wished me good luck and mentioned he liked to 2 step. Because the dialogue we'd been having was great I invited him to meet us there and teach me how to 2 step. Roomie is a great dancer and she would very likely have danced with people regardless of if I had a partner or not. Which I am fine with. But I wasn't really looking forward to an entire evening of being the "newbie" at the bar and having to force my way through the maze of what I anticipated to be a lot of attention. (Hey, maybe I am just overly confident, but based on the responses I'd had from the dating site, I wouldn't be alone for most of the night.) So, I felt like inviting someone that I was already interested in and had things in common with would be a good way to ease into this game called dating.

So because this was the first time in over 15 years I was going to be on a date, I had a little cranberry, orange juice and vodka as Roomie drove to the bar. I gave D a call to let him know where we were and we chatted a bit. He was funny and laughed at my jokes. Plus he had a great voice. I was a little tipsy from the amount of alcohol I'd already drank (did I mention I am total lightweight?) so I made a mental note to slow down. We arrived at the bar and he found me waiting while Roomie hit the bathroom. He was a complete gentleman, totally my type and had a great smile. He offered to hold Roomie's drink while we waited and ended up wandering towards the dance floor with it while I was waiting for Roomie. I gathered her up when she came out and we headed over to D. I introduced them and she immediately spotted an ex of hers that she was hoping wouldn't be there. I tried to give D the quick 1-2 and let him know we'd need to watch out for her and this guy. He did so for the rest of the night which I thought was really nice.

We danced a lot, he's a great dancer, great sense of humor about the fact that I was learning and very patient with me. We took some breaks and talked, we really seemed to be connecting. We had a few brief kisses. We ended up leaving the bar at the end of the night. Roomie was very protective, but not wanting to tell me what to do. She made me call her with his cell so she'd have his number. We drove around a bit looking for a place to stop and talk, neither of us was really hungry. We found a park, but apparently that was a bad idea. We started kissing a bit and shortly the police rolled by. They informed us this wasn't a good place to be (the park was closed) and we needed to move on.

He started driving to my place and we talked on the 30 minute drive. We covered a variety of topics and it was a really nice time. He commented several times that I was tempting. When we arrived home I invited him in because I knew Roomie was home. I changed, they chatted, and I rejoined them. He liked what I had changed into, short shorts and t shirt that I normally wear around the house. Roomie went to smoke and we headed to my room.

We had a lovely session of kissing which lead to an even nicer session of getting naked which led to a really great night of sex and talking and laughing and holding and touching and caressing. I told him that it was a perfect night because there was no pressure and he'd been really great on the dance floor. It made it much less stressful for me to enjoy my first night out and I also met a great guy.

We slept a bit when we realized it was getting light already. When we woke up we snuggled and had some pillow talk. Followed by some more sex. He was persistent in making sure that I came and it was a nice change. We got dressed to go down and have breakfast, I put on the same shorts and t shirt from the night before which he really liked. He got down on his knees and pulled my shorts down and had a little taste of my wet wet pussy. Yum, I love that kind of spontaneity.

We had a little bit of breakfast, chatted some more, and he left to do some volunteer work he does on Sunday's. I relayed to Roomie the highlights of the evening and was a little surprised to realize that I really liked him. I wasn't really expecting to find someone soon that I liked so much.

He sent me a quick text after he left:
Thxs again for a great evening of dancing, laughing at my awful jokes, getting chased by the police, making love and sharing who we are! ; )

I replied with:
Thank you! I felt safe with you and that meant a lot and helped me share things with you. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and that leaves me stumbling a little. I didn't expect that kind of connection so early on. You are upsetting my master plan of being "unavailable" and dating for awhile. I honestly am befuddled because I am a little smitten with you.

To which he said:
I like the word smitten. I feel that too.

So am kicking around the idea of just seeing him for a bit and trying it out for size. I am exhausted from not much sleep at this point and am headed to bed. All in all I am super pleased with how this week and weekend went. It's validated to me that others find me attractive and they find me interesting. Or at the least, I write a good dating profile.