"Sexual Adventurer in Pursuit of Nonmonogamy"
Showing posts with label vacation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label vacation. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

And we're baaaack!

No magical song today.

I have been overloaded at work with a MAJOR event that happened last Friday. It went swimmingly. The largest event I've done so far, with over 1500 people. We had only glowing reviews from all involved, it was major. But it took up 110% if my time. I was literally working until 10pm and on the weekend. Madness. So this week, I have my kids on a wonky schedule again because of it as "make up" time.

The kids have been better, and not better. Interacting with them had been harder, and easier. I have certainly been more proud of my own responses as of late, which is good. And I think it's helping to create a more even tone between us. Which is nice. But there's a lot of "NO" going on when I ask K to do things. Which of course F learns to respond that way as well. I am going to check back into counseling with K. I think it's a great way for me to learn some parental skills and tools. I mentioned it casually at the last dr appt with F and got some follow up calls from some social workers with some information that will be helpful, now that I have time to look at it. I think we can all benefit from it in some way or another.

I am excited about an upcoming trip to visit my sister in Mass in Dec. I will be there for 9 days. I decided today that I might as well spread out and go see some friends that I've kept in touch with that live around there too. Should be a lot of fun. The trains go every where I want to go and that way I don't need to worry about driving in that weather.

Things with D are going really well. I am growing board of dating. I have a couple of viable options right now, but I am making myself unavailable to meet them based on how much time I spend with D. Which, to be honest, is just fine with me. He's teaching me how to be respected and cherished and those are really rare things to come by. Allowing myself to be treated that well is something new for me too. It's amazing to realize how different life can be when someone treats you with respect. And I am learning a lot about how to be in a relationship too. Because I feel like a different person with D. A better, new improved version of me. We're talking about "me for you, and you for me only" options. I don't think I am done completely with the dating scene yet. Still seeing the value in it, so I'll continue to do it until I don't. Either way, I am really, really enjoying being with D, and have certainly grown to love him at this point. We've been telling each other that for awhile now since I finally decided to listen to my heart, rather than my head. He still makes my stomach do that little jump when he's near. I love it.

Feeling nostalgic, I went back to Daisies for the first time in a REALLY long time today. Not sure why. But I did. Was surprised to find J is not using it. I sort of figured he'd keep it up as an outlet. It was touching to read our last few entries. I didn't go beyond the first page. Not sure what the goal was there. Maybe to see if I am remembered. I certainly remember him, a lot. But I have to say, it's less frequently than it used to be. I hope it's the same for him.

Weather is turning cooler, allergies are back. Things are looking brighter in this crisp fall air. My favorite holiday is coming up, get your pumpkins out. Hope things are well with everyone else too. : )

Thursday, September 9, 2010

I run to you

I've had this song on my mind awhile. It's a great song.

Well I have cheered up markedly in the last week which is great. Last weekend was Labor Day and I spent it all with D. We drove up a local mountain to get some heat relief and found a lovely little camp site to hang out at for awhile. We'd brought some fruit and wine and cheese and crackers and smore's makin's. It had been a LOOOONG time since either of us had smores. YUM!! Can't recommend it enough. I had mentioned earlier in the day that there were vegetarian marshmallows and he relayed later that he went to 4 (yes FOUR) different grocery stores looking for them. Apparently the guy at the last one asked how many stores, to which D replied 4 and the guy said, "wow, you must really like her." (insert goofy grin here)
: )

We hung there for awhile, enjoyed some wine, which lead to some nekkid time, which was fun and risky with people clearly in eye sight of where we were. That of course added to the excitement. Watched some stars when we were done. Had a long conversation about our open relationship. We're both still comfortable with it, which is great. Headed down the hill a few hours later to go home. Enjoyed some more of each other which completely exhausted us and we crashed. Woke up, enjoyed an entire day of hanging at the house watching movies. Crazy Heart (eh), Gamer (bad, he actually fell asleep), some porn (lead to some nice action) and finally Backup Plan (better than expected actually). Made corn bread pot pie in the crock pot so it was ready for dinner, YUM. More smores, then more enjoying, then bed.

Woke up Monday, back to my house for supplies, hung out at his neighbor's pool awhile, eventually went to meet his parents where we had dessert. I had met them briefly once before at a jewelry party so it wasn't awkward. And in fact it was nice. They are very proper people, he's ex military and she's a true southern lady. It's all very different than how I grew up. But a nice change. Then we did the local run in the evening and headed back to his place again. It was all very "mundane" and "normal." And nice. Comfortable. Effortless. Somewhere in there I became his babygirl. He mentioned it in a txt at one point later and I said I really liked it. He said, "that's what I think when you're tucked into my arms and I am kissing you good night."

Insert next goofy grin here : )

I was IMing with C from my online dating site last week and he let me know that he's finally ready to meet me. I was super excited but bummed that I had made myself unavailable all weekend with plans with D. But, it's the next week, and guess what, C still hasn't set plans to meet me. Ah well. Certainly not going to push that one.

And Friday it was like old flames day or something, I had 2 people who had been in touch with me previously that I hadn't heard from since my KC trip get in touch with me. One asked if I needed someone to take pics for my blog, no strings attached. I politely declined (he turned out to be kind of a jerk and I wasn't interested in getting back into that drama) and he then proceeded to tell me he was engaged. Sheesh, good thing I'd said no. CERTAINLY don't need that drama. And the other guy was ALL about meeting me ASAP!! Made tentative plans for lunch today. Txt'd him this morning. No response. Again, ah well.

Roomie is going out of town this weekend and D and I are headed to the football game. Should be lots of fun, and he'll come here after, which will be a nice change from packing up 2-4 bags to head to his house every weekend. He'll be meeting my mom and her partner Sunday. He said he was flattered I asked. I think they will like him.

AND, CP will be joining me here on Monday for the day, since I have a forced vacation day. He's the one night stand guy I've mentioned previously. We'll see how that day goes. He is like a big kid. 39 going on 22. I am apparently the oldest person he's dated. He's the youngest person I've dated and it's obvious. He calls me things like dork and goof. Things D thinks are disrespectful and would never dream of saying to me. A good juxtaposition. Not sure how I'll lay that one out to D.

But (I know, don't call you a but), here's my HNT from the mountain. D took it while I was admiring the beautiful fire. Be sure to check out Os to see who else is playing.

Monday, August 23, 2010

Fantasy #3

I was at the pool on vacation in KC and D and I were sexting back in forth. I was letting him know I was checking out the hot girls at the pool and wondered what we’d do with one of them. This is what transpired and part of the reason I enjoy D so much and keep him around. He plays along...


D: U start

Me: We are in my room just back from the pool where we spent the last hour swimming and enjoying each other and our almost naked bodies.

D: I help take off ur bikini. Ur nipples are so hard from the AC, & u help me out of my suit, noticing a slight bulge in front as u pull down my trunks…

(D sent this pic entitled: “waiting for you to suck”)


Me: As I take down your trunks I sink down and take your cock in my mouth. I love it like this because I can take you all in my mouth. I slowly roll you around in my mouth while holding your tight ass.

D: I feel the back of ur throat against the tip of my cock as u swallow so deep. I hold ur hair back w my hand & watch u devour me over n over

Me: You grow bigger and harder with each lick bite and suck. I start to fondle your balls and squeeze them gently. You are so hard now you want to come but have other ideas.


(D says “what a smokin’ hot ass u’ve got ; ))


D: Just then I hear a knock at the door… it’s the hottie u saw at the pool. She took u up on the offer to join us for a drink in our room…

Me: Oooo all the better! We quickly discuss the limits and a safe word. "Orange." She and I kiss and I caress her tight breasts as you remove her bathing suit. You linger on her…

D: …tattoo on her ass as she wants me to see it. She turns to look down & notices ur work of my cock so hard. Shes really impressed w ur body & smile & says…

Me: What a nice tight body I have. Do you work out? Yes and I run and you, I ask? Your figure is what drew me to you. I am stroking my fingers up and down her body while talk and so is she. My fingers find their way down to her wet pussy. Yes she says meanwhile you are…

D: Marveling at 2 beautiful women very into the moment. She asks u if its OK to have ur man join in cuz she wants to do a 3 way, but has never done one…

Me: Yes that was the idea I tell her. I haven’t done ths before either I say so we will figure it out together. This seems to make her more comfortable and I kiss her. You are …

D: I am sensing you both want to explore each other so I make each of us a drink & put on some sensual music, light some candles & tell u girls to get in bed.


D: My favorite place… yum ;) very nice pic!

(I take a shower and call D to let him know)

D: While ur in the shower, I ask our friend what she most wants from a three way. Shy at first, but then her drink takes hold…

D: & then she says she’s always fantasized about a 3 way, watched porn to see how it can b, but never felt like the time was right till now.

D: She asks what’s a spot u have that turns u on. I tell her ur upper back when u kiss it & gently push ur lips into it. U then come out of the shower and

D: Are naked without a towel. U come over to me, French kiss me, then bend down, take my cock in ur mouth & suck it for a minute. U then go over to her &…

D: U go over to her & French kiss her gently, then whisper in her ear that u want her to suck ur man’s cock right now while u watch…

D: I see her move my way. I stand & she says she wants to swallow my huge cock whole. I go to the chair, sit down & have her kneel in front of me.

Me: Yum! Don’t stop! Fuck I want your cock so bad right now!

D: I tell her I want u both to suck my cock together. U kneel down & take turns sucking & licking my cock till I’m so hard & stiff I can’t stand it…

D: I tell u both to lie down on ur backs beside each other & sat I’m gonna throat fuck u both so hard. She hasn’t done that before, so we start together…

D: U tell me after I throat fuck her u want to give her oral at the same time. She says OK. U move into place & begin licking her pussy…

D: At this point, she is moaning so loud & feeling ur tongue in her pussy that she says this is the best sex shes ever had & to do with her anything we want.

D: At this point, excited about other positions, I don’t want to cum yet. I tell u its ur turn now to please urself with her while I watch… U start by…

Me: Who do you fuck first my stud?! Ooo her! Save some for me!

D: Nope its ur show w her first b4 I get some fuckin’ done…and u 1st of course! U narrate now…

Me: I start with her pussy. You are sitting in the chair. I crawl up her body and whisper: Can he take pictures? She nods as I kiss her. I crawl off her and move over to you. I kiss you deeply and stroke your hard cock.

D: I want to see u both lick each other 69 style w u on top. U agree, and really show me how u can eat pussy which turns me on…

Me: You are taking pictures from all angles. Each snap is hotter than the next because I am really getting into it and learning what she likes.

D: She says I should take a picture of u deep throating my cock on ur back while she licks & fingers ur pussy.

Me: I agree that’s a great idea and assume the position. She crawls over to my pussy and tentatively starts to lick me. Youtell her what to do while I scuk and lick your cock.

D: She watches u swallow up my cock with ur arched neck over the bed. She pleases ur clit so much u cum right then while she feels ur thighs twitch.

Me: Are you able to keep from coming from fucking my mouth while she makes me come?

D: Yes, U want to return the gavor for her & switch places. She works to relax her throat w/o gagging while u finger & lick her clit. She moans in pleasure.

Me: I climb up to whisper in her ear. She listens and does what I say. I finger her pussy to relax her and shes able to breathe and take you all the way in. I move down her body marveling at how different it is from a mans. I can tell you are being gentle with her but enjoying it a lot. I take pics so you can both see what I see later. You

D: Ur pussy is still tingling while u make her cum. I hold back on cumming while I throat fuck her, then us say u want my cock in ur pussy.

D: I tell her to spread her legs over ur mouth while ur on ur back. I tell her to guide mu cock into ur wet pussy while u lick her clit. I slam my cock deep…

Me: And I gasp into her pussy. You kiss her and fondle her breasts while you fuck me and watch as she enjoys while I lick her.

D: U make her have another small orgasm at the same time I make u cum. She asks u if its OK if I can fuck her too while she licks ur pussy & u take the pics.

Me: I tell her I would love to and we switch spots. I can tell you are getting close to coming and I sit on her face and let her lick me. I kiss you and hold the base of your cock tight while you pound away at her wet pussy.

D: I tell u I’m ready to cum, and let u decide how u want to have my huge load of cum…

Me: She tells us she wants you to cum in her mouth and gets onto her knees to receive your load. I take pictures and watch as you stroke yourself off into her mouth.

D: after I shoot my cum in her mouth w her lips open, I tell her to cum share French kiss you. I whisper in ur ear that I want to ass fuck you while she watches.

D: U get on all 4’s, and she spits some of my cum from her mouth on ur asshole and slowly inserts her finger in ur hole. I then have u hold mu cock & u begin to…

Me: Slide your cock around my pussy to keep you nice and hard while she works my ass open for you . I am rocking against her hand and your cock and moaning and sucking hear breasts. Ready I guide your cock into my ass.

D: U tell me to fuck ur ass so hard till u scream from the pleasure. I get so stiff while I’m fucking you I’m ready to cum again. U shout ‘cum for me baby’ & I do.

Me: Sigh, lovely.

D: I collapse & am completely spent. U girls want to spend the night in bed w me in between.

Just to try it...

As previously mentioned, I had a blast in Kansas City and that included making out with a girl for the first time. It was fun, and interesting, and new, and different, and sort of what I expected and I would probably do it again. The lyrics to this song are entirely appropriate, "not what I planned, not my intention, got so brave drink in hand, just wanna try it on, I'm curious, you caught my attention." While I was in KC I was sex/txting with a few guys back at home, D, being one of them and another, new I haven't mentioned, named C. The following is the txing that happened through out the night when I met this girl and one thing led to another. "L" mentioned is my friend that I went on vacation with. It may be a bit choppy, but I was sort of channeling Frances and Daniel and felt like it was an entertaining way to tell the story. D was sending me shots of the porn he was watching and the girl, "R" was looking at the shots with me while we were bored at the awards ceremony.

D: Does L watch porn?

Me: I dunno but R from CO. does and we are enjoying the hell out of it! L isn’t sitting w me.

D: Say Hi to R for me! Is she drunk too?

Me: Hell yeah! We are being the ridiculous drunks together tho so its fun.

D: Is she at ur same hotel?

Me: No damnit!

D: Close by… a cab ride away?

Me: OMG she just told me I could be her first gog action but we both have girls in our rooms and I would SO do her too!

C: I love your grin in this one (photo of me at conference)

Me: Thanks! Where are you I am missing your txts!

C: Sorry been getting ready. I’m heading out.

Me: Grr how are you going to keep me hot and wet for you? I am getting ready to have my first girlgirl action here!

D: Work it girl! U & she make it happen ; )… even if its leave a bit early & only have 20 mins together b4 the other girls come back @ ur or her hotel.

D: U work out hooking up w R?

Me: Trying she is up for it. We should find a bathroom and go at it. You liken this?

D: Hell yeah! Bathroom idea is great. U can see if u click 1st, then want do more. She’s pretty…how’s her body…hot?

Me: Yes shes a yoga instructor need I say more?

C: On no… no friends taking pictures of me.

Me: why not shes willing I am willing we just need to find a place both our rooms are full. Bathroom?

C: I’m not saying u shouldn’t, no way.

Me: Yes we both have someone else in our room.

D: Cool! U still sharing & enjoying my porn feed? Trying to find some girl-girl action…

Me: Yes we are both enjoying it. But we are enjoying the action shots more than the creampies.

D: Ok. Did she want to sneak away to the bathroom w u now?

Me: Maybe should we take pics?

D: Only if I can see! ; ) I’m so excited for u…do u think it’s gonna happen?

Me: Yes we are discussing the private bathroom downstairs. Fuck!

D: Go for it!!

Me: We are waiting for the bathroom now.

D: She ok w pics?

Me: Yes

C: well bathroom wont be fun for long though

Me: I know but it was good for awhile. ; ) yum! First woman! Done!

C: No way already?

Me: Yes back at my hotel alone wishing I could finish what she and I started. I need some cock, sigh.

C: What did u guys do? Make out? Did u get any pussy? Better yet, did she get any of ur beautiful pussy?

Me: We made out I bit her and bit on the neck she said no marks, darn! We groped each other all over I started the fingering, she kept up. I ate her then we kissed and groped some more and she ate me a bit. Then people were knocking on the door by then so we stopped and she went out to smoke and I came back here.

C: How was it? What was the feeling? Do you know her?

Me: Met her tonight. I was taller. Shes a yoga instructor. It felt fun but rushed. Soft and tentative on her part. Def felt like I was leading but she was willing. Is that how it feels for a guy?

C: Soft and tentative. Well I guess even in a situation like that someone leads and someone follows. It’s not like u had the time to “switch rolls”

C: I am actually more curious as to how the conversation even starts.

I reassured him he'd hear all about it when we met. We have yet to do so, but I am hopeful that happens at some point. Reading through this it was definitely more entertaining while it happened. But. That was the gist of it. Alexa posted this right after and I thought it fitting. She titled it "Been there..." ; )

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Girl just look at you

I know a spot down on the river underneath the sycamore tree. Save all your kisses up, bring all your sweet love, pour it all over me. I am IN LOVE with this song right now. It just makes me SMILE and SMILE and SMILE. I need to just buy the album and get it over with. It just makes me want to dance. It's so sexy.

So, dating is going to be fun. I am certainly having fun teasing the boys online. I am in Kansas City on vacation with a friend (L) for a national conference she's attending. I am just along for the ride 'cause it's a free hotel room and some free food because she was able to get me a pass to the conference. Hard to pass that up, so I didn't! I have all those vacation days to burn still, so I am HOPING I'll be able to do some quick 3 day weekend trips in the future. Roomie is talking about hitting San Carlos again, she needs to sign some paperwork.

As part of my vacation, L was able to get us some discounted spa passes so I used Mystic Tan for the first time. I noticed some stickers as I was wandering around so I posted the following pic to the 4 or so boys I am getting to know (one of which includes D, who I am keeping in the herd for some sex : )).

They all said either the playboy bunny or kisses on either lower back or "near your pussy." So, bunny went lower back and kisses went above my pussy.

But the bunny didn't really take, too bad, it was cute, if not a little typical.

The kisses aren't really as red as it looks, they are bad photos. But, what do you think? I will post more follow up shots. I may have mentioned I am growing out for a total brazilian, so please excuse the unkemptness.

Did I mention that I had a little fun at D's on Sunday before I left on vacation? It was some great sex in the bathroom. All about mirrors and looking at each other's bodies, which looked great together, I might add. More great fucking in the ass, yummy, love that! Then he attacked my pussy with a vigor that was a little overwhelming. Eventually he used his hand in my ass where he had just come which felt AMAYZING. Whew! It was great stuff, good for lots of memories later and ensuing wetness. *sigh* It also helped with the orgasm I had at the spa yesterday. This is the shot after the O of my "hydrated" breast and legs.

So, onward and hopefully upward with my boys and the fun.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Paradise

Kenny Chesney Beer In Mexico

I mentioned I was going to San Carlos right? It's beautiful. This song is the pefect backdrop for my vacation with Roomie. We're having a blast and it's paradise. This is the view from my porch. More later!