The Office

Must be doin' somethin right. Watch at 2:48, that's us when we're snuggling at night.

Once upon a time, there was a man and a woman. They loved being with each other, were totally comfortable trying new things and stretching their boundaries. One night she mentioned a fantasy she'd always had about the office. He was intrigued. He said they should try it.

So they did.

I had to go into work a few weekends back because we've got a lot of events happening right now. My boss has been traveling a lot too and that tends to make my work load back up until I can get some face time. To combat this in between trips I sometimes work after hours.

It was Sunday and we had gone for a run when my boss called me to send him an email, that I had already sent. It was almost 8 by the time I got into work, "real quick" and that turned into 3 hours. Poor D fell asleep on the ground. I felt really bad. So when I was done (at 11 pm), I climbed  on top of him to wake him up. That led back to my cubicle, that lead to his pants coming off. And my top coming off, then all our clothes were off. My fantasy was running through our minds, we discussed it and enjoyed as much of it as we could, being only the 2 of us. I layed down on my desk and took him into my throat with my head hanging off the desk. He loves it when I do that with him. He sends me photos and tells me how hot it is when he thinks of us doing it. I was able to get a nice rhythm going and figure out my breathing in conjunction with his thrusts. Yum.
We had watched a bit of porn the night before when a guy had spun a girl around by her neck and I'd told him I thought it was hot. He did that with me on the desk and we both smiled. Was in the perfect position to hold my legs up together while he held my thighs and pounded his hard cock into me. He had one of his famous "bear orgasms" and then had a lovely time enjoying himself in between my legs. I assisted and eventually had a fantastic orgasm, all spurred on my the public nature of the occasion.  I loved that he was game for it and didn't tease about it, then not follow through.

I can cross that one off the bucket list now. Not to say it won't ever happen again. Today he txt'd me and told me how horny he was since we hadn't seen each other in 2 days. He said we should try the stairwell I'd shown him next time.

Lovin' that. : )

My HNT photo for the week reminds me of this song. Spent most of the weekend at his place and he took this picture yesterday morning before I woke up. I had no idea he'd taken it. He likes it when I wear his clothes to bed, then they smell like me after I leave. We've been doing some running together which is great. Gotta keep those legs in shape! Be sure to check in with Os to see who else is playing on HNT.

I run to you

I've had this song on my mind awhile. It's a great song.

Well I have cheered up markedly in the last week which is great. Last weekend was Labor Day and I spent it all with D. We drove up a local mountain to get some heat relief and found a lovely little camp site to hang out at for awhile. We'd brought some fruit and wine and cheese and crackers and smore's makin's. It had been a LOOOONG time since either of us had smores. YUM!! Can't recommend it enough. I had mentioned earlier in the day that there were vegetarian marshmallows and he relayed later that he went to 4 (yes FOUR) different grocery stores looking for them. Apparently the guy at the last one asked how many stores, to which D replied 4 and the guy said, "wow, you must really like her." (insert goofy grin here)
: )

We hung there for awhile, enjoyed some wine, which lead to some nekkid time, which was fun and risky with people clearly in eye sight of where we were. That of course added to the excitement. Watched some stars when we were done. Had a long conversation about our open relationship. We're both still comfortable with it, which is great. Headed down the hill a few hours later to go home. Enjoyed some more of each other which completely exhausted us and we crashed. Woke up, enjoyed an entire day of hanging at the house watching movies. Crazy Heart (eh), Gamer (bad, he actually fell asleep), some porn (lead to some nice action) and finally Backup Plan (better than expected actually). Made corn bread pot pie in the crock pot so it was ready for dinner, YUM. More smores, then more enjoying, then bed.

Woke up Monday, back to my house for supplies, hung out at his neighbor's pool awhile, eventually went to meet his parents where we had dessert. I had met them briefly once before at a jewelry party so it wasn't awkward. And in fact it was nice. They are very proper people, he's ex military and she's a true southern lady. It's all very different than how I grew up. But a nice change. Then we did the local run in the evening and headed back to his place again. It was all very "mundane" and "normal." And nice. Comfortable. Effortless. Somewhere in there I became his babygirl. He mentioned it in a txt at one point later and I said I really liked it. He said, "that's what I think when you're tucked into my arms and I am kissing you good night."

Insert next goofy grin here : )

I was IMing with C from my online dating site last week and he let me know that he's finally ready to meet me. I was super excited but bummed that I had made myself unavailable all weekend with plans with D. But, it's the next week, and guess what, C still hasn't set plans to meet me. Ah well. Certainly not going to push that one.

And Friday it was like old flames day or something, I had 2 people who had been in touch with me previously that I hadn't heard from since my KC trip get in touch with me. One asked if I needed someone to take pics for my blog, no strings attached. I politely declined (he turned out to be kind of a jerk and I wasn't interested in getting back into that drama) and he then proceeded to tell me he was engaged. Sheesh, good thing I'd said no. CERTAINLY don't need that drama. And the other guy was ALL about meeting me ASAP!! Made tentative plans for lunch today. Txt'd him this morning. No response. Again, ah well.

Roomie is going out of town this weekend and D and I are headed to the football game. Should be lots of fun, and he'll come here after, which will be a nice change from packing up 2-4 bags to head to his house every weekend. He'll be meeting my mom and her partner Sunday. He said he was flattered I asked. I think they will like him.

AND, CP will be joining me here on Monday for the day, since I have a forced vacation day. He's the one night stand guy I've mentioned previously. We'll see how that day goes. He is like a big kid. 39 going on 22. I am apparently the oldest person he's dated. He's the youngest person I've dated and it's obvious. He calls me things like dork and goof. Things D thinks are disrespectful and would never dream of saying to me. A good juxtaposition. Not sure how I'll lay that one out to D.

But (I know, don't call you a but), here's my HNT from the mountain. D took it while I was admiring the beautiful fire. Be sure to check out Os to see who else is playing.

Weird spot

I am in a weird mood today. D mentioned via email this morning that he'd had a girl over to the house last night. This was only after I had txt'd him last night to ask if I could call him. Didn't hear back from him for awhile, then his response was "Out for a bit." To which I replied, "Going to bed, night." I was pretty sure he was on a date, even though that wasn't the "protocol" we discussed which would have been "I am busy." Semantics I know, but, out for a bit could have been with buddies, his son etc.

This morning I get an email letting me know that he had someone over, she's interested in getting into a more serious relationship with him, but he's losing interest because he just thinks about me when he's with other people. And "did I do that?"

Well, yeah.

So now I am in this mental funk visualizing him having someone at his house. Where I sit. Where I eat. Where I am.

Not likin' those thoughts very much.

And now I get where he was coming from when we discussed me and my dates in the past. I really thought that I wasn't the jealous type. Does it mean I care more than I thought because it bothers me? That's his take on it when I shared how I felt. I dunno. It may just be part of my expansion and growing through the dating process.

I will say, I cut it off tonight with 3 guys I had gone out on dates with. I did it over text too, is that TOTALY gutless or what? Something along the lines of "I feel like I am not being completely upfront with you. After mentally reviewing our evening, I didn't feel a connection on my part with you. So I wouldn't mind staying in touch with you as friends, but I think that would be the extent of it. No hard feelings?"
They were all very gracious and replied with, no hard feelings, best of luck etc. I just felt like I was leading them all on with the hopes that, oh, they may invite me to their house in San Carlos, etc. Lame. Materialistic. User. I didn't like thinking of myself that way. So, I cut it off. Feel better about myself now. Which is great. And a start. Now I just need to work on those other things I am having an issue with myself over:
Running
Parenting
Time Management
Staying on task at work

That's a good list to start with. I am pretty happy beyond that to be honest. But we all have those little areas we feel like we could improve ourselves. I need to start using "can do" statements. I CAN do that. I can find/make the time to run more to help me keep my weight at a level I want, I can be a better mom, I can be a better, more productive employee etc. Also using these with my kids. Already noticing a difference. Seems to be a good start.

For HNT I'll do one of my "thoughtful" poses. Be sure to check out Os to see who else is playing.

Running - I like it

Oooh yeah I like it! The new nummy Enrique Iglesias, don't stop baby, just keep on shakin' my love!

I spent the last couple of nights with D and it's been great. I had a couple of dates on Sunday and that created a "we need to talk" situation with D. We had a long talk about the "open relationship" and me dating and him dating and what that meant to us an how we would continue to handle it. We got it all worked out, which is fantastic. I am a big fan of the communication that we have. And the fact that he's willing to talk about it even if it makes him uncomfortable. How very grown up.

So the at work visit the other day was a lot of fun. He arrived and we went next door and scouted out the bathrooms. They were both busy so we stood around and waited and chit chatted a bit. Then we were able to acquire a bathroom while no one else was in the hallway, discretely. : )

I was surprised to see there was a bench in the bathroom, how convenient!! That was going to come in VERY handy, I immediately insisted he sit on it and started unbuckling his pants. After getting his already hardening cock out I wrapped my lips around it. He loved it and moaned. He had brought the camera an pulled it out now and started snapping pictures of me working his cock. It was tasty and I could hear him snapping shots.

"Don't get distracted with the camera," I said.
"I won't," he replied.

 Snap

Snap

Snap


It was really fun to be in the bathroom, knowing there were people walking by in the hallway outside. All that stopped them from seeing us was a little lock on the door. This of course made us both hotter.

You could hear their footsteps, hear them checking to see if the bathroom was available, it SO wasn't : ).
He stood me up at one point and bent me over the storage cabinet that was there and pounded away at me, both of us stifling our sounds but still loving every minute.

I sat him back down and eventually finished him off. I could tell it was really hard for him to be quiet, he's typically QUITE vocal about his release. I giggled and smiled at how much he was enjoying it.

He took this picture while we were straightening up, he said, "You have such great legs." That's his POV of my sassy legs and shoes.

So I went Friday and got another Brazilian wax. This one was MUCH less painful and she literally got it done in like 15 minutes. I was shocked how much better it was. I'll post pics when I am home again.

Last night we participated in a local little walk/run that happens every Monday night here. He's trying to get back into shape and I am encouraging him by inviting him to things like that. It's so much better to be able to work out with someone rather than making the time to do it without them, which takes away spending time with him. I think we're both really going to enjoy it and I am certainly looking forward to participating more.

Daffodils

Song of the day: Baby I'm in. Love, love, LOVING this song by Keith Urban right now. If you need a lover and a friend...

I was so honored to be chosen as the Mystery Guest today! I think of this blog really as a diary. As events happen I think about how I am going to word them, or how a photo would accent a post. But if I miss posting it or sharing that thought, it's ok, it's just for me. Well, apparently others are watching and that just tickles me pink! : ) I was really pleased that Os picked the poem that he did. Daffodils are very special to me because of J. The constant back and forth was which flower was my favorite? Daisies. No, he'd correct me, they're daffodils. No, daises, daffodils, etc... So it  made me smile in my heart when Os picked that.

I have a wedding to go to this Saturday. And I think I may actually have a dinner date on Sunday. I am at the point where I rate all potential dates on how badly I want to see them vs the time they take away from D. We pretty much spend all our spare time together, which I love. It's like having a home base but with the freedom to explore other people. An open, semi-but-not-committed relationship, who knew?! : )

Tuesday night D didn't say the words "do you want to stay over" or some variation on that, so I didn't assume I would. It's a long haul from my house to ANYWHERE (15 minutes just to the freeway, then another 10 minimum to anywhere) so if I am going to stay over at his place I have to plan in advance since he's 30 mins away in good traffic. I planned for staying over Sunday and Monday. Then Tuesday rolled around and I had a little Girls Night Out jewelry party for a friend and hadn't planned to stay with him. Didn't have enough meds,  clothes, had to send off pics to Os for HNT MG, and my laptop stays at home, etc. So the end of the night rolled around and I went back to his place to pick up my stuff he was surprised to find I wasn't staying. I said, well, you never "officially" invited me and I didn't want to assume, since we're not boyfriend/girlfriend anymore, that I could just stay over. He was so disappointed. And then so was I. Awww. I really wanted to stay. But I really wanted to go home and send off my photos too! So, to say we spend most of our free time together isn't really stretching it much.

Last night I was gathering up the boys to head them upstairs for shower and their 3 simple steps (think Special Agent Oso - fun version) and Roomie's dog Maggie started doing crazy dog laps in the house. You know, when they are running around in circles through all the rooms in the house while you just try to stay out of their way? Well, I was moving to the side, she dodged where she THOUGHT I was going, and, BAM!! I end up on my ass on the tile floor. I was pretty lucky I didn't hit my head on the wall that was a foot away. So, now my bum, wrist and ankle are all a little sore. I am hoping they don't hurt tomorrow. I plan to do some dancing at the wedding this weekend!

So I am not entirely pleased with the way the I Kissed a Girl post turned out. I think I will supplement it at some point. It didn't really have the effect that I wanted. Keep an eye out for that.

Today, I have plans to have D to work at lunch time for a little afternoon delight in a private bathroom I know about. That should be fun. I invited him yesterday for lunch but he wasn't able to make it. So, I tempted him with this bit of texting yesterday when he let me know he was done for the day with work:

Me: Yay! Time for you to come over here so I can attack you.

D: Very tempting babe! We could find a hideaway spot for some public sex ; )

Me: Just thinking of all the private bathrooms I know about... And what I am going to do to you in them.

D: Yum! OK... give me a little "for example..." please?

Me: I would take you over to the next building and find one of the private bathrooms. The door would lock and I would push you against the door and drop to my knees. Your belt would come off first. Then your pants, unzipped. Next your cock comes out and I wrap my mouth around it. You've been thinking about this so you're a little hard already. (ELO Evil Woman is playing right now).

D: Awesome visual... I'm so there! Can you actually make that happen?

Me: Yup ; )

D: Tomorrow at lunch?

Me: Yep if you want to come here.

D: Hell yeah I want to cum there! ; ) When is good for u? Meet 1st at your office?

Me: Lol, eager all of a sudden. 1130ish, noon, 1, whatever.

D: Kind of a big deal don't u think?

Me: Why do you think I invited you over today lover?

D: Thx! But just making sure ur not gonna get in trouble... or is that part of the fun? ; )

Me: Not going to get in trouble. That's what lunch breaks are for right?

D: Absolutely. U want me to bring my camera?

Me: Bring whatever you'd like. 11:30 works and I am flexible.

D: Ok 11:30 it is. My treat for lunch after. Bring ur vibrator too.
Me: Oooooo! That WOULD be interesting! And great for pics...
D: You like the way I'm thinkin I see!!

Me: Always baby. That's why I keep you around. You're fun in all the right ways. : )

D: ; )

Me: I am SO looking forward to having your cock in my mouth tomorrow. Wish it was now.

D: Oohhh baby! Me too. And ur pussy in my mouth ; )

Me: (Big inhale) YUM!

D: Breathe deeply & softly my love! ; )

So I'll recap in the next post because by the time I post this, it will have already happened : ) Hopefully I'll have some great before shots for the Brazilian I have scheduled tomorrow. I'll post those with the recap. Until then, here's my HNT for the day! At some point I will figure out how to do those click throughs but, not today! Happy HNT and be sure to stop by Osbasso to see who else is playing!

Fantasy #3

I was at the pool on vacation in KC and D and I were sexting back in forth. I was letting him know I was checking out the hot girls at the pool and wondered what we’d do with one of them. This is what transpired and part of the reason I enjoy D so much and keep him around. He plays along...


D: U start

Me: We are in my room just back from the pool where we spent the last hour swimming and enjoying each other and our almost naked bodies.

D: I help take off ur bikini. Ur nipples are so hard from the AC, & u help me out of my suit, noticing a slight bulge in front as u pull down my trunks…

(D sent this pic entitled: “waiting for you to suck”)

Me: As I take down your trunks I sink down and take your cock in my mouth. I love it like this because I can take you all in my mouth. I slowly roll you around in my mouth while holding your tight ass.

D: I feel the back of ur throat against the tip of my cock as u swallow so deep. I hold ur hair back w my hand & watch u devour me over n over

Me: You grow bigger and harder with each lick bite and suck. I start to fondle your balls and squeeze them gently. You are so hard now you want to come but have other ideas.

(D says “what a smokin’ hot ass u’ve got ; ))


D: Just then I hear a knock at the door… it’s the hottie u saw at the pool. She took u up on the offer to join us for a drink in our room…

Me: Oooo all the better! We quickly discuss the limits and a safe word. "Orange." She and I kiss and I caress her tight breasts as you remove her bathing suit. You linger on her…

D: …tattoo on her ass as she wants me to see it. She turns to look down & notices ur work of my cock so hard. Shes really impressed w ur body & smile & says…

Me: What a nice tight body I have. Do you work out? Yes and I run and you, I ask? Your figure is what drew me to you. I am stroking my fingers up and down her body while talk and so is she. My fingers find their way down to her wet pussy. Yes she says meanwhile you are…

D: Marveling at 2 beautiful women very into the moment. She asks u if its OK to have ur man join in cuz she wants to do a 3 way, but has never done one…

Me: Yes that was the idea I tell her. I haven’t done ths before either I say so we will figure it out together. This seems to make her more comfortable and I kiss her. You are …

D: I am sensing you both want to explore each other so I make each of us a drink & put on some sensual music, light some candles & tell u girls to get in bed.

D: My favorite place… yum ;) very nice pic!

(I take a shower and call D to let him know)

D: While ur in the shower, I ask our friend what she most wants from a three way. Shy at first, but then her drink takes hold…

D: & then she says she’s always fantasized about a 3 way, watched porn to see how it can b, but never felt like the time was right till now.

D: She asks what’s a spot u have that turns u on. I tell her ur upper back when u kiss it & gently push ur lips into it. U then come out of the shower and

D: Are naked without a towel. U come over to me, French kiss me, then bend down, take my cock in ur mouth & suck it for a minute. U then go over to her &…

D: U go over to her & French kiss her gently, then whisper in her ear that u want her to suck ur man’s cock right now while u watch…

D: I see her move my way. I stand & she says she wants to swallow my huge cock whole. I go to the chair, sit down & have her kneel in front of me.

Me: Yum! Don’t stop! Fuck I want your cock so bad right now!

D: I tell her I want u both to suck my cock together. U kneel down & take turns sucking & licking my cock till I’m so hard & stiff I can’t stand it…

D: I tell u both to lie down on ur backs beside each other & sat I’m gonna throat fuck u both so hard. She hasn’t done that before, so we start together…

D: U tell me after I throat fuck her u want to give her oral at the same time. She says OK. U move into place & begin licking her pussy…

D: At this point, she is moaning so loud & feeling ur tongue in her pussy that she says this is the best sex shes ever had & to do with her anything we want.

D: At this point, excited about other positions, I don’t want to cum yet. I tell u its ur turn now to please urself with her while I watch… U start by…

Me: Who do you fuck first my stud?! Ooo her! Save some for me!

D: Nope its ur show w her first b4 I get some fuckin’ done…and u 1st of course! U narrate now…

Me: I start with her pussy. You are sitting in the chair. I crawl up her body and whisper: Can he take pictures? She nods as I kiss her. I crawl off her and move over to you. I kiss you deeply and stroke your hard cock.

D: I want to see u both lick each other 69 style w u on top. U agree, and really show me how u can eat pussy which turns me on…

Me: You are taking pictures from all angles. Each snap is hotter than the next because I am really getting into it and learning what she likes.

D: She says I should take a picture of u deep throating my cock on ur back while she licks & fingers ur pussy.

Me: I agree that’s a great idea and assume the position. She crawls over to my pussy and tentatively starts to lick me. Youtell her what to do while I scuk and lick your cock.

D: She watches u swallow up my cock with ur arched neck over the bed. She pleases ur clit so much u cum right then while she feels ur thighs twitch.

Me: Are you able to keep from coming from fucking my mouth while she makes me come?

D: Yes, U want to return the gavor for her & switch places. She works to relax her throat w/o gagging while u finger & lick her clit. She moans in pleasure.

Me: I climb up to whisper in her ear. She listens and does what I say. I finger her pussy to relax her and shes able to breathe and take you all the way in. I move down her body marveling at how different it is from a mans. I can tell you are being gentle with her but enjoying it a lot. I take pics so you can both see what I see later. You

D: Ur pussy is still tingling while u make her cum. I hold back on cumming while I throat fuck her, then us say u want my cock in ur pussy.

D: I tell her to spread her legs over ur mouth while ur on ur back. I tell her to guide mu cock into ur wet pussy while u lick her clit. I slam my cock deep…

Me: And I gasp into her pussy. You kiss her and fondle her breasts while you fuck me and watch as she enjoys while I lick her.

D: U make her have another small orgasm at the same time I make u cum. She asks u if its OK if I can fuck her too while she licks ur pussy & u take the pics.

Me: I tell her I would love to and we switch spots. I can tell you are getting close to coming and I sit on her face and let her lick me. I kiss you and hold the base of your cock tight while you pound away at her wet pussy.

D: I tell u I’m ready to cum, and let u decide how u want to have my huge load of cum…

Me: She tells us she wants you to cum in her mouth and gets onto her knees to receive your load. I take pictures and watch as you stroke yourself off into her mouth.

D: after I shoot my cum in her mouth w her lips open, I tell her to cum share French kiss you. I whisper in ur ear that I want to ass fuck you while she watches.

D: U get on all 4’s, and she spits some of my cum from her mouth on ur asshole and slowly inserts her finger in ur hole. I then have u hold mu cock & u begin to…

Me: Slide your cock around my pussy to keep you nice and hard while she works my ass open for you . I am rocking against her hand and your cock and moaning and sucking hear breasts. Ready I guide your cock into my ass.

D: U tell me to fuck ur ass so hard till u scream from the pleasure. I get so stiff while I’m fucking you I’m ready to cum again. U shout ‘cum for me baby’ & I do.

Me: Sigh, lovely.

D: I collapse & am completely spent. U girls want to spend the night in bed w me in between.

Just to try it...

As previously mentioned, I had a blast in Kansas City and that included making out with a girl for the first time. It was fun, and interesting, and new, and different, and sort of what I expected and I would probably do it again. The lyrics to this song are entirely appropriate, "not what I planned, not my intention, got so brave drink in hand, just wanna try it on, I'm curious, you caught my attention." While I was in KC I was sex/txting with a few guys back at home, D, being one of them and another, new I haven't mentioned, named C. The following is the txing that happened through out the night when I met this girl and one thing led to another. "L" mentioned is my friend that I went on vacation with. It may be a bit choppy, but I was sort of channeling Frances and Daniel and felt like it was an entertaining way to tell the story. D was sending me shots of the porn he was watching and the girl, "R" was looking at the shots with me while we were bored at the awards ceremony.

D: Does L watch porn?

Me: I dunno but R from CO. does and we are enjoying the hell out of it! L isn’t sitting w me.

D: Say Hi to R for me! Is she drunk too?

Me: Hell yeah! We are being the ridiculous drunks together tho so its fun.

D: Is she at ur same hotel?

Me: No damnit!

D: Close by… a cab ride away?

Me: OMG she just told me I could be her first gog action but we both have girls in our rooms and I would SO do her too!

C: I love your grin in this one (photo of me at conference)

Me: Thanks! Where are you I am missing your txts!

C: Sorry been getting ready. I’m heading out.

Me: Grr how are you going to keep me hot and wet for you? I am getting ready to have my first girlgirl action here!

D: Work it girl! U & she make it happen ; )… even if its leave a bit early & only have 20 mins together b4 the other girls come back @ ur or her hotel.

D: U work out hooking up w R?

Me: Trying she is up for it. We should find a bathroom and go at it. You liken this?

D: Hell yeah! Bathroom idea is great. U can see if u click 1st, then want do more. She’s pretty…how’s her body…hot?

Me: Yes shes a yoga instructor need I say more?

C: On no… no friends taking pictures of me.

Me: why not shes willing I am willing we just need to find a place both our rooms are full. Bathroom?

C: I’m not saying u shouldn’t, no way.

Me: Yes we both have someone else in our room.

D: Cool! U still sharing & enjoying my porn feed? Trying to find some girl-girl action…

Me: Yes we are both enjoying it. But we are enjoying the action shots more than the creampies.

D: Ok. Did she want to sneak away to the bathroom w u now?

Me: Maybe should we take pics?

D: Only if I can see! ; ) I’m so excited for u…do u think it’s gonna happen?

Me: Yes we are discussing the private bathroom downstairs. Fuck!

D: Go for it!!

Me: We are waiting for the bathroom now.

D: She ok w pics?

Me: Yes

C: well bathroom wont be fun for long though

Me: I know but it was good for awhile. ; ) yum! First woman! Done!

C: No way already?

Me: Yes back at my hotel alone wishing I could finish what she and I started. I need some cock, sigh.

C: What did u guys do? Make out? Did u get any pussy? Better yet, did she get any of ur beautiful pussy?

Me: We made out I bit her and bit on the neck she said no marks, darn! We groped each other all over I started the fingering, she kept up. I ate her then we kissed and groped some more and she ate me a bit. Then people were knocking on the door by then so we stopped and she went out to smoke and I came back here.

C: How was it? What was the feeling? Do you know her?

Me: Met her tonight. I was taller. Shes a yoga instructor. It felt fun but rushed. Soft and tentative on her part. Def felt like I was leading but she was willing. Is that how it feels for a guy?

C: Soft and tentative. Well I guess even in a situation like that someone leads and someone follows. It’s not like u had the time to “switch rolls”

C: I am actually more curious as to how the conversation even starts.

I reassured him he'd hear all about it when we met. We have yet to do so, but I am hopeful that happens at some point. Reading through this it was definitely more entertaining while it happened. But. That was the gist of it. Alexa posted this right after and I thought it fitting. She titled it "Been there..." ; )